sub female

Ohio, United States
About me
Hello! Welcome to my profile :)

I've been hanging around here for about a year. Usually in chat, sometimes just reading and commenting on blogs and forums. I enjoy reading just about anything so that's how I spend most of my time. Always excited to learn something new. I've also recently taken up flint knapping. It's been my best hobby by far. I also enjoy watching sports, playing spades, and enjoying the outdoors.

I'm a sincere, fun, and inquisitive person. Someone here once posted:


Not exactly sure who said it first, but it stuck with me. Before you decide to message me, be completely aware that I expect you to be a mature individual, who is interested in getting to know me as a person, not just my kinks.

I'm married (vanilla)
I'm here to make friends and to learn more about kinks, toys, and BDSM.
BDSM and me
I was first introduced in college. We were together for 2 years (IRL) we played with restraints, wax, and knives. After that dynamic ended, I took a break and went vanilla. In the past few years I've begun to miss many aspects of BDSM and I've found my way here to the Cage.

I've always considered myself a submissive, however, I've recently learned that I also have slave tendencies. I'm also a little. I'm learning to embrace and explore these new traits that I've evolved into.
People who message and assume that because I'm a submissive, that I belong to them. *Eye roll*

Dick pics. Rest assured if you send one to my inbox, it'll be shared with all my friends and we'll get a good laugh, make fun of you, and we'll all avoid you like the plague.

Then the usual: children, scat, animals, drugs, anything illegal.
What's new
It's difficult to learn who I am in this realm and where I belong, but I'm adjusting well. I'm here for friends. Please reach out if you are interested in good conversation and making an honest connection.
Update date
Tuesday, February 19, 2019
Member since
Friday, July 6, 2018
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