Whitecollarswitch

United States
Gender
Male
Age
39
Relationship status
Single
About me
I am a highly educated professional who in my day to day is required to bear the weight of decisions and their impacts. My performance determines lives of others. I am a bigger person standing about 6'4 and weighing about 225. I have bluish eyes with some green in them and light brown hair. I am a warrior in my day to day but I also have a tendency to allow my cup to run dry by pouring it out and allowing myself to become invested. I will fight for those close to me but would love someone who would prize me and help me to forget my days after I come home and take off my armor. Picture not mine credit to whoever's it is.
BDSM and me
I came across the lifestyle when I was searching online. I have a very specific area of interest in that I am looking for what I used to classify as caring submission. After a few web searches I cam across gentle femdom. I am not looking for a mommy, I am a grown man, but also someone who needs to have the ability sometime to just turn things off a bit. To just be comforted and taken care of. I may have interest in switching but it would be on the same lines of caring for the other person. My link below is pretty indicative of what I am after.

I am also willing to be Dom as it's still definitely part of me. I tend to be caring and essentially what I describe above as a Dom.
Limits
I'm not much into super intense stuff. Degradation will bring out the very Dom professional side. I am not a slave or doormat. I am not a baby boy or age player.

As a Dom I am firm but fair. I expect a bit of independence from the sub but also will be there to support as needed.
What's new
Me to this world.
Member since
Jul 30, 2018
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