I’m looking for a Dominant not a Dictator..
Hii I’m Ari I’m a rope bunny submissive looking for an online D/s relationship with partial TPE. That will eventually lead to irl. In the long run I am looking to be collared by my Dominant who is also my boyfriend. Please be 30-35 y/o with more than 5 years experience online and irl ( as a rigger too ). Tall athletic build preferred , you don’t have to have muscles all over however I prefer someone who is in shape. I need my potential Dominant to hold me accountable in different ways. Especially not skipping the gym and drinking more water.
I’m needy , I need guidance, training ( tailored to my Doms likings ) , reassurance and a lot of time. I’m not saying I need to smother you , however if your work schedule is busy and we barely communicate our dynamic won’t work. I need open lines of communication. I need someone who is sweet, kind and nurturing but also firm and aggressive. I also require a lot of emotional care from my Dominant because I am slightly emotionally dependent. You need to care about me mentally , emotionally & physically.
I want to experience what it feels like to give my power away to my Dominant who has my full trust and devotion. I want to turn my mind off and surrender. You have to most definitely care about my pleasure as well. I want us to get the point where you know me better than I know myself. I want to be your outlet , your sole source of satisfaction . I want to have your full attention no one else will be responsible for making you cum except for me.
I want to feel used , owned and desired. I want to feel your dominance in every aspect. At the end of the day I need to know that you’re in charge and have my best interests at heart . A genuine dynamic is built on trust and open communication, otherwise it won’t work. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR ANYTHING CASUAL. I’m seeking a life partner who I can learn and grow with vanilla and kink wise.
I’m not perfect by any means. At the end of the day I’m just a good girl who tries her best..
Vanilla me : I love music my favorite band is Korn, my favorite movie is The Waterboy , I love cosmic horror and all types of animals <3
Description of Me : I’m 31 y/o African American, light brown caramel skin , short dark brown hair with dark brown eyes . I’m on the curvier side ( I workout 4x a week) I have large breasts with thighs and a nice a**. ♥️
Self collared <3
I have mild experience with online D/s dynamics.
•HARD LIMITS
Fisting
Illegal activities
Being whipped
Flogging
Scat
Slave Play (race inspired)
Race Play
Age Play
Animals
Knives
Blood
Gore
Hoods
Mummification
•SOFT LIMITS
Edging
Water sports (humiliation)
P*ssy Spankings
Orgasm Denial
Orgasm Control
Please Don’t Message Me If..
You’re not into plus size curvy black women
You’re into racial slave play/race play
You prefer online play only
You don’t meet the age/experience requirements
You’re not in Reno / Sparks
I’m terrified of flying on a plane so long distance is not on the table sorry.