Wife wants a scene

The thing is she wants me in complete control all the time and I'm working up to it. We've done "small" scenes before, some spur of the moment stuff, and she is free use to me. As far as why she wants ...

Sat Aug 05, 2023 12:57 pm • 18 Replies • 1973 Views

BAN SILENT BLOCKS!!!.. the site needs to be updated.

Personally I think going through profiles to block someone on the off chance they might one day try to contact you is kinda weird. At the same time to each their own.

No one has the right to impos ...

Sat Apr 08, 2023 12:44 pm • 34 Replies • 5337 Views

Help, any advice?!

Position wise I'd suggest doggie or him standing you lying down. Or some variant of lotus so you can sit in his lap and kiss his neck. As for him being quiet try to inspire him with question and ans ...

Wed Mar 29, 2023 11:57 am • 3 Replies • 895 Views

I think my strange fwb is into all this

From what I've read I honestly can't tell if this guy is into BDSM and echo the above advice. Asking directly is probably the only way you'll get to the bottom of this.

My only additional thought ...

Sat Mar 04, 2023 1:35 pm • 12 Replies • 2296 Views

Spitting

Thank you for all your replies. It's been good to get new perspectives on this.

Tue Feb 07, 2023 1:09 pm • 11 Replies • 1972 Views

Spitting

A friend and I were talking recently and as things do the subject naturally turned to blowjobs. During the discussion the question of why some people spit instead of swallowing came up. Naturally I ...

Thu Feb 02, 2023 2:26 pm • 11 Replies • 1972 Views

Advice Needed

The only thing I have to add is that it might be helpful to create an environment where he knows it's okay to indulge a little. Ask him about his fantasies, act a few of them out so he is more recept ...

Mon Jan 23, 2023 2:02 am • 43 Replies • 5508 Views

How did you figure out the D/s lifestyle is what you wanted/needed?

Well in high school I found myself face fucking my girlfriend in the library study room, which was a fair hint.

But really it down to two things as I learned more over the years. I enjoy the struc ...

Sat Oct 22, 2022 12:29 pm • 11 Replies • 1820 Views

CNC Thoughts

For me CNC is more about the willful and enthusiastic "disregard" of my partner's wishes. That I am going to take what I want, do what I want, and only stop when it ceases to be entertaining for me. ...

Thu Oct 20, 2022 2:31 pm • 12 Replies • 1756 Views

Determining informed consent

Lovedove,

I was not talking practicalities or communication or listening or anything else besides pure abstract theory. There is no right or wrong, its a philosophical question that has no real pr ...

Thu Sep 22, 2022 11:47 pm • 29 Replies • 5806 Views