Sincere submissive gentleman with a few kinks seeks to serve safe, sane, genuine Dominants. Having been in the scene since 1990 with both Pro and lifestyle Dommes, I have experienced a wide range of BDSM and D/s.
With regard to BDSM, I find that the submissive side appeals to me. Given the right chemistry with other persons, it is possible to find pleasure from a catharsis of surrender, of knowing one is owned, collared, at the feet of one's master to be used for their pleasure. This is a distinction from a submissive with a fetish. A true submissive and slave abandons their desires. She or he must take their passion and focus this into providing pleasure to their master. This can be an intimate and sometimes even spiritual experience. As in all relationships, there are certain rituals, protocols and considerations between the parties.
Laying on the floor below a Domme, under Her feet, perhaps objectified, inhaling Her scent, looking up with adoration moves me into sub space. Most of my submission has been to Female Dommes but I have served M/F couples as well as Lesbian subs and Lesbian Dominants. I believe in non-sexual service as well. Foot massage, cleaning, buying shoes, and other considerations have a place if it means making my Mistress happy or their life easier.
One will find me open minded with a few sensible limits. There has to be chemistry so it's always appropriate to meet for a drink and see how this develops with no expectations.
Discretion, good manners, and common sense are important. Long term friendships are the goal for obvious reasons.
Travel takes me to a lot of cities such as Atlanta, San Francisco, Tampa, Chicago, Boston, Miami, Ft Lauderdale, Orlando, Denver, Los Angeles, Phoenix, Orlando, Seattle, San Diego and Portland.