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PappaBear
Fort Worth, Texas, United States
PappaBear
Gender
Male
Voice
Age
53
Relationship status
Single
About me
Dominant of 28 years experience… STILL learning… about BDSM, myself, and life in general. If you’re not evolving, you’re devolving.
I’m a simple guy. I believe in respect, for everyone. I consider myself Dominant and yet, I won’t hesitate to say, “please”. If you think that makes me “less than Dominant” somehow, shouldn’t a Dominant teach, shouldn’t a Dominant lead? What better way to teach and lead than by example?
I consider myself polyamorous, this does not mean I can’t be monogamous or perfectly satisfied in a monogamous relationship… it simply means I am capable of loving more than one person on a similar level of romantic intimacy. I am equally capable of loving a single person and choosing to remain monogamous. Did it for 15 years… never cheated or thought about it… because it was not necessary nor is it in me to have something outside of an agreed upon structure like marriage. Now, agree with me that you also find someone attractive and want to explore with that person or set of people, whether sexually or in some other intimate manner, and we can redefine our agreement and move forward within that new structure.
I’m a simple guy. I believe in respect, for everyone. I consider myself Dominant and yet, I won’t hesitate to say, “please”. If you think that makes me “less than Dominant” somehow, shouldn’t a Dominant teach, shouldn’t a Dominant lead? What better way to teach and lead than by example?
I consider myself polyamorous, this does not mean I can’t be monogamous or perfectly satisfied in a monogamous relationship… it simply means I am capable of loving more than one person on a similar level of romantic intimacy. I am equally capable of loving a single person and choosing to remain monogamous. Did it for 15 years… never cheated or thought about it… because it was not necessary nor is it in me to have something outside of an agreed upon structure like marriage. Now, agree with me that you also find someone attractive and want to explore with that person or set of people, whether sexually or in some other intimate manner, and we can redefine our agreement and move forward within that new structure.
BDSM and me
The potter and the Master
The relationship between Master and slave is not unlike that of a potter and his clay. First, each selects the right piece of clay, without form without purpose yet they both see the potential. Like the potter, the Master must pay close attention to what his clay tells him it can become. He must also master his impulse to try and force it to become something it is not meant to be, lest he leave it mangled, ruined, and unsure of its purpose. As the wheel begins to turn the Master applies a firm but loving hand and slowly, deliberately begins to mold his clay. All the time, he listens to his work carefully to discover each tiny nuance until together, they have made something delicate yet strong, fluid yet serene... As the potter must fire his piece so to must the Master apply pressure. Too hot the piece chips, too cool the piece becomes weak and fragile. Once the Piece has passed this test the potter applies a glaze and once again fires the piece making permanent the beauty the clay has become. The master has created this, he owns it, he loves it, and he protects it, for it is a piece of himself gloriously reflected in the beauty of that clay.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
100% Rigger
100% Master/Mistress
94% Owner
90% Daddy/Mommy
74% Voyeur
64% Primal (Hunter)
50% Degrader
50% Non-monogamist
37% Brat tamer
37% Exhibitionist
31% Sadist
25% Experimentalist
11% Ageplayer
1% Vanilla
0% Switch
http://bdsmtest.org/r/DdRUNqra
The relationship between Master and slave is not unlike that of a potter and his clay. First, each selects the right piece of clay, without form without purpose yet they both see the potential. Like the potter, the Master must pay close attention to what his clay tells him it can become. He must also master his impulse to try and force it to become something it is not meant to be, lest he leave it mangled, ruined, and unsure of its purpose. As the wheel begins to turn the Master applies a firm but loving hand and slowly, deliberately begins to mold his clay. All the time, he listens to his work carefully to discover each tiny nuance until together, they have made something delicate yet strong, fluid yet serene... As the potter must fire his piece so to must the Master apply pressure. Too hot the piece chips, too cool the piece becomes weak and fragile. Once the Piece has passed this test the potter applies a glaze and once again fires the piece making permanent the beauty the clay has become. The master has created this, he owns it, he loves it, and he protects it, for it is a piece of himself gloriously reflected in the beauty of that clay.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
100% Rigger
100% Master/Mistress
94% Owner
90% Daddy/Mommy
74% Voyeur
64% Primal (Hunter)
50% Degrader
50% Non-monogamist
37% Brat tamer
37% Exhibitionist
31% Sadist
25% Experimentalist
11% Ageplayer
1% Vanilla
0% Switch
http://bdsmtest.org/r/DdRUNqra
Limits
Scat, Blood, Minors, Illegal, Needles, and the limits of those who entrust me with their submission.
What's new
Just because you're able to be Polyamorous, doesn't mean Polyarmory is right for you.
Update date
Jul 19, 2023
Member since
Sep 10, 2018