I am not looking. I found the most amazing girl and I'm happy.
The basic stuff:
I am 27 years old. 5'11, 180 pounds, athletic build. Live in San Diego. I like to be outside and stay active. Health is important to me. In my spare time I like to read, play guitar, video games, cook, mountain bike, hike, weight lift and a lot more. Really anything outside and away from electronics and work.
I love my peace and quiet.
Love to travel as well. Been to quite a few countries and around the US with plans to travel later this year and next year.
Been into bdsm for 12 years. Had a few good long term D/s and M/s relationships. As well as a few bad experiences. I am now extremely careful and selective of who I trust and give my time.
I lean towards a traditional D/s dynamic with some aspects of DDlg incorporated. I like for bdsm to extend out of the bedroom into day to day life. With control over agreed upon parts of daily life, tasks, chores and routines.
As for kinks I am into a lot of different ones and prefer to talk about that privately. To name a few - bondage, anal (toys, plugs and sex), servitude, pain play, pet play, cnc, sensory deprivation, slave training, humiliation.
What I am looking for:
Someone who has shared values. Communication, honesty, respect, integrity, humble, modest, intelligence and health (physical and mental). These values are how I live my life and only want someone in it who does the same.
A sub who is my peace and quiet. Drama free. She understands traditional values and roles in a relationship. Embraces her feminine side. Takes pride in her appearance, can hold a conversation and is always respectful. No one who is over weight, short or dyed hair, no crazy amount of piercings or tattoos. Drug, alcohol, smoking and disease free.
Location can be anywhere at first but I do not want to do long distance for very long. A few months at most.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Brat tamer
100% Dominant
100% Daddy/Mommy
100% Degrader
98% Rigger
90% Sadist
82% Primal (Hunter)
80% Owner
69% Master/Mistress
63% Experimentalist
35% Exhibitionist
22% Vanilla
5% Non-monogamist
1% Voyeur
0% Ageplayer
0% Switch
Poly
Commitment issues
Poor Communication
A disrespectful attitude
Laziness/ constant excuse making
Anything illegal
Age Play - when it is sexual