alewife
sub female

United States
Age
42
About me
I'm a woman in a male dominated industry. I work hard to provide and recover what my feminine ancestors brought to this world.

I am a tom boy by most standards, I am uncompromising in my views of individualism, I am difficult, I will challenge you, and I will love you with my whole being under the condition that you love me.

I will be an uncompromising yin to the yang. The yielding to the firm. The dark to the light. The receptive to the creative. Of this I am sure.

I have many a kink, but I want to be touched, challenged, and taught. I want to be a partner, a comrade, and a confidant. Tell me a joke. (No, seriously, give me some dirty shit) Tell me your dreams. Tell me anything you want me to know, and them tell me more. I love to talk, but I love to listen and learn even more.

Winky kiss face ?
BDSM and me
Learning what my kinks are and are not has been a journey of fun. I'm an old lady and I should have this all ironed out, but it varied with each partner.

I'll show you mine if you show me yours.
Limits
This is a bit more difficult to describe, there are some things I have never tried as an adult woman that I may be open to with discussion and instruction. However, any type of play with poop or animals is out completely. Nothing illegal.

The new feature of the BDSM checklist is a nice touch, and shows some of my interests. Thanks to the admins for that tool.

Boundaries are important, questions help us establish them.
What's new
After some time away I'm coming back to pen my thoughts and maybe find a connection. It's a big maybe.
Update date
Oct 31, 2023
Member since
Oct 16, 2018
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