whitecollarspankee

sub male

38

I am a white collar professional who leads and commands during the day. But have found a desire to find a trustworthy woman to let take over at night. I am tallish and in reasonably good shape. I enjoy my work but off duty I also enjoy not only playing euchre and board games but also sports/active things with friends. I volunteer in my community and as a more public figure have to keep this side closeted except to those in my trust circle.

I began with the idea that Dom on streets so I must be Dom always, it led to me being drained and not fulfilled. I felt I faked it to make it. Then I realized when I just let myself think with no limits my fantasies were around allowing someone else to lead.

I am trying self imposed locktober which is going ok, but I do wish I had someone to hold and be perhaps less strict than I have been with the key/releasing me.

Degradation is a no, I also don't do feminization.

Dipping toe back out there to see if I can meet cool people and perhaps see about more if it works with a Domme type.

Oct 8, 2022

Jan 29, 2019