In a monogamous relationship
In my vanilla life I have a pretty demanding and stressful job ... that's how I justify some of my hedonistic desires. Outside of work I enjoy good food, good wine and music ... can't live without it! My taste in music is eclectic, what I listen to depends on my mood. Favorite genres, Jazz, Blues, R&B and Sinatra. Why Sinatra? I am Italian American from NYC. Growing up I didn't know the difference between Sinatra and The Pope ... in my family both were equally revered.
I am not a big fan of television, although I admit to occasionally binge watching Netflix. I usually gravitate towards people who are intelligent and who have a great sense of humor.
In my spare time I enjoy writing poetry, cooking, reading, traveling, keeping fit, and walking on the beach. If you would like to know more, please stop by and introduce yourself.
“There is a charm about the forbidden that makes it unspeakably desirable.”
“My manner of thinking, so you say, cannot be approved. Do you suppose I care? A poor fool indeed is he who adopts a manner of thinking for others!“
~Marquis de Sade
I am an experienced, educated Dom who has been in this lifestyle for many years ... since the days of the old guard. If I were to identify myself, it would be ... a Dominant, a Daddy, and a Sadist. Which hat I wear depends on the needs of my submissive.
I like pushing limits, physically as well as mentally. I am also thoughtful, caring and very protective. I don't believe you need to be harsh to be strong. I am controlling but not abusive ... if I wanted a doormat, I would be looking in Home Depot, not here.
My ideal submissive would be intelligent, quick witted and self confident enough to totally submit without fear of compromising her self worth. I am not looking for cyber or a hook up, I've had my fill of those. I found someone who I can share my life with.
No Trump Supporters, No Children, No Scat.
Everything else is negotiable.