SubSided

sub female

56

Single

I was a married woman whose husband has decided he can do better. I'm an alpha submissive, which means I have a dominant personality but am actually a submissive. I call myself a "reluctant submissive". I desire to submit but can't do so until my mind is known and controlled by another. My preferences are clean cut, no tattoos, professional. I appreciate a man who understands what "going slowly" means. I'm not a "flash-in-the-pan" type of person.

Grew into the lifestyle in late 2012. I'm completely sure that I'm not a switch, nor a Dominant. My desires do not lay in those areas. I enjoy writing, flirting and getting to know people.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Brat
100% Rope bunny
100% Submissive
80% Masochist
57% Experimentalist
52% Vanilla
49% Exhibitionist
40% Slave
34% Primal (Prey)
34% Voyeur
29% Pet
17% Non-monogamist
3% Dominant
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Rigger
0% Ageplayer
0% Brat tamer
0% Degrader
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
0% Primal (Hunter)
0% Sadist
0% Switch

No video. I'll share a face pic if I get to know you and trust you. Must have a grasp of grammar and spelling if English is your first language.
Monogamy. If you are married, committed or poly, I'm not your girl. 
Nothing wrong with it, just not for me.

I currently in a dynamic
 It's been four years since my divorce (after 30 years) and I'd like to find someone special. By special, I mean a natural Dominant who is not looking for a hookup.

Aug 19, 2024

Jul 13, 2019