Invalidating others kinkiness - has anyone else experienced this?

I feel this way when I'm called a brat because I don't immediately acquiesce. I've also been told I'm not a true sub because I like to run away and be overtaken and overpowered.

After several year ...

Wed Aug 07, 2024 4:36 am • 14 Replies • 1068 Views

Wgen did you first know you were into something different?

Yes, in a vague sort of way.

Sun Sep 22, 2019 11:20 am • 25 Replies • 15480 Views

Wgen did you first know you were into something different?

Exactly! It's like a gateway drug. You feel 'something' but know there is so much more.

Sun Sep 22, 2019 11:15 am • 25 Replies • 15480 Views

Real Time and Online : What's your prefence and why?

Wow.
The view of online - only seems to be condescending and dismissive.

I'm a married woman who will not seek anything physical. Yet, my submission is accomplished online.

Yes, it works for ...

Sun Sep 22, 2019 10:26 am • 70 Replies • 35038 Views

Wgen did you first know you were into something different?

My story is a little.... off.

I'd loved porn, but was drawn to movie and tv depictions of submission. The only impediment was that Hollywood showed the male as the submissive.

A powerful, contr ...

Sun Sep 22, 2019 10:18 am • 25 Replies • 15480 Views

Online D/s task/punishment ideas

This is a very old post, but I'd like to share.

One Dominant i was involved with had me make a list of six things i liked and 6 i disliked. Without knowing where He was headed, i sent my lists. Act ...

Sun Sep 22, 2019 10:09 am • 17 Replies • 379380 Views

Sacrifice, Selflessness and Martyrdom

Martyrdom is the act of giving one's life in support of our refusal to deny their chosen faith.

I don't think that applies in BDSM.

Sacrifice and selflessness are a basic cornerstone to a posit ...

Tue Sep 17, 2019 6:06 am • 10 Replies • 6201 Views

Question for both submissives and dominants about communication

I email as if I'm a cognizant human being who deserves reverence and respect until such time as there is an agreed upon exchange of control.

Even then, I sure as heck expect to be respected and I s ...

Tue Sep 17, 2019 5:56 am • 42 Replies • 24035 Views

Jealous of Involving Other Women

Two sides to every coin. My husband had a D/s relationship with a non-local friend of mine and it worked out well. But when he developed a relationship with someone local, things didn't go as planne ...

Sat Sep 14, 2019 8:45 am • 29 Replies • 15726 Views