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BlkSteeldom male
Phoenix, Arizona, United States
BlkSteel
Age
64
Relationship status
Single
About me
First of all, thank you for reading my profile. I appreciate people taking the time to read it before jumping on my DM. We all are different and although we are into similar kinks we may not connect as humans so I appreciate you reading these lines before deciding to write me to see if we could click.
I'm a Black Dom. If you're a sub and want to know more take the time to get to know me. If not don't waste my time. I am seeking LTR or wife as long as you stay true to the lifestyle. I do love to spank that ass.
I should be able to enjoy a nice breakfast with you, be on your knees pleasuring me at my direction a few minutes later, and be talking about philosophy or politics with you (with your full respect) minutes after that. If that scenario is confusing to you, you had best move on. I consider submission a choice, not an obligation. I am very respectful of my partner’s limits, and I expect the same in return.
If you're inexperienced but want and are willing to learn I will teach you the right way to serve this Dom. What you must understand is that Dom's are individuals and we each have our way we want to be served so just because you have served one Dom if you go to another ask him to show you the way he wants you to please him.
I am here looking for my sub/slut/whore I want you women who are grown-ass women, who don't have to hide in Antarctica or need to be paid. But who embraces this lifestyle proudly and is not afraid to be kinky?
I want a true freak that will fuck for my pleasure someone who enjoys sex will welcome gangbangs, swinging, orgies, and going out and having fun with me your man that loves to watch you fuck and be Bi. HMU if you're my kind of woman.
I WILL NOT BE YOUR SUGAR DADDY YOU WILL PULL YOUR WEIGHT. A real Dom isn't going to pay any subs way through life. That's the job of a cuck, not a Dom. I am old school, and most of you are not sub enough to be with me because you want to play at BDSM I LIVE IT. Now if you think you're women enough get at me.
If your address is in Antarctica don't bother contacting me.
If you want to be taken care of financially don't bother contacting me.
If you're ashamed of who you are and what you like don't bother contacting me.
If you have no photo of you on your profile don't contact me. Anyone that would see you is here seeking their kink also.
The groups, as well as the Fetishes listed below, are either things I've done, things I'd like to do, or just things I've found interesting. We can talk about which is which ?, and which ones we are compatible with. So, if your libido is still strong, and "good girl" or "good slut" whispered in your ear makes your heart beat a little faster, let's chat.
Looking for females who want to learn how to be good subs and about the lifestyle not just looking for BBC or money.
If you want excitement and adventure you will find gratification here contact me.
Submit and do whatever it takes to please me. So DM me if you think you got what it takes. Because there’s a lot to be done and a lot of places to go. Just follow my lead and I’ll show you heaven on earth ❤️❤️?
Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future WITHOUT MY EXPLICIT WRITTEN AND VERBAL PERMISSION! If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications! It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this on your page.
I'm a Black Dom. If you're a sub and want to know more take the time to get to know me. If not don't waste my time. I am seeking LTR or wife as long as you stay true to the lifestyle. I do love to spank that ass.
I should be able to enjoy a nice breakfast with you, be on your knees pleasuring me at my direction a few minutes later, and be talking about philosophy or politics with you (with your full respect) minutes after that. If that scenario is confusing to you, you had best move on. I consider submission a choice, not an obligation. I am very respectful of my partner’s limits, and I expect the same in return.
If you're inexperienced but want and are willing to learn I will teach you the right way to serve this Dom. What you must understand is that Dom's are individuals and we each have our way we want to be served so just because you have served one Dom if you go to another ask him to show you the way he wants you to please him.
I am here looking for my sub/slut/whore I want you women who are grown-ass women, who don't have to hide in Antarctica or need to be paid. But who embraces this lifestyle proudly and is not afraid to be kinky?
I want a true freak that will fuck for my pleasure someone who enjoys sex will welcome gangbangs, swinging, orgies, and going out and having fun with me your man that loves to watch you fuck and be Bi. HMU if you're my kind of woman.
I WILL NOT BE YOUR SUGAR DADDY YOU WILL PULL YOUR WEIGHT. A real Dom isn't going to pay any subs way through life. That's the job of a cuck, not a Dom. I am old school, and most of you are not sub enough to be with me because you want to play at BDSM I LIVE IT. Now if you think you're women enough get at me.
If your address is in Antarctica don't bother contacting me.
If you want to be taken care of financially don't bother contacting me.
If you're ashamed of who you are and what you like don't bother contacting me.
If you have no photo of you on your profile don't contact me. Anyone that would see you is here seeking their kink also.
The groups, as well as the Fetishes listed below, are either things I've done, things I'd like to do, or just things I've found interesting. We can talk about which is which ?, and which ones we are compatible with. So, if your libido is still strong, and "good girl" or "good slut" whispered in your ear makes your heart beat a little faster, let's chat.
Looking for females who want to learn how to be good subs and about the lifestyle not just looking for BBC or money.
If you want excitement and adventure you will find gratification here contact me.
Submit and do whatever it takes to please me. So DM me if you think you got what it takes. Because there’s a lot to be done and a lot of places to go. Just follow my lead and I’ll show you heaven on earth ❤️❤️?
Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future WITHOUT MY EXPLICIT WRITTEN AND VERBAL PERMISSION! If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications! It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this on your page.
BDSM and me
18 years as a Dom more sensual Daddy loves being a Stag spanking making you a slut willing to take you deeper if you like.
Limits
No scat or piss play, no blood or serious pain, children
What's new
The misconceptions surrounding D/s are many:
Dominants take what they want.
Submissives do what they’re told.
Submissives should never ask for what they want. They’re not real submissives if they do.
Dominants shouldn’t ask for a submissive’s opinion or desire. It makes them appear weak.
Laughter, teasing, and silliness have no place in D/s. It’s a serious business.
Lies! All lies! Dominants and submissives are first and foremost people in a relationship. Each person must find it fulfilling in order for it to be successful and last any length of time.
Dominants don’t “take” anything without mutual agreement, consent, and prior negotiation. They need a submissive’s permission first.
Submissives do as their told and asked after ground rules have been set and consent gained.
Both Dominants and submissives should also have the freedom to express their wants, needs, and desires whenever they want.
Laughter, teasing, and silliness need to have a place in every relationship or you’re doomed before you start.
D/s is a give-and-take power dynamic. Each side feeds off of the other.
Submission: Power, Control, and Trust
A female is submissive in a relationship with a male Dominant, and from the outside, She is the stereotype. She enjoys kneeling (while entirely naked, thank you very much) at his feet. She wants pain, rough sex, and being told what to do, commanded if you will. Yep, that’s her, your “typical” submissive. Of course, there’s also the stuff you’ll only see if you look closer.
The power in my D/s relationship sits with her, the submissive. Without her cooperation and willingness to submit, there is no D/s. He may be Dominant, but he’s not dominating anyone unless he has a willing submissive. Sure, either of us could decide to stop a scene, in a moment, or even the relationship. Free will still apply. But the act of Domination from a BDSM standpoint can’t happen without a consenting and willing submissive. He can tell her to get on her knees, but only she decides if she will or not. Freedom, as a submissive, is knowing you can trust your partner enough in order to let go completely and follow the rules, guidance, commands, and directions you’re given.
On the other side, a Dominant needs to know they can trust their submissive to follow those rules and protocols and to do as they are told. Some of those rules are for the Dominant’s benefit – they get off on the control. Some are for the submissive’s benefit – they need to learn discipline. Others though are mutually beneficial. At the end of the day, it’s about integrity. Trust in one another, control over their actions, and an understanding of the power they yield – are what make a D/s relationship successful and satisfying.
Submitting: Two Perspectives
A submissive is given a command by their Dominant. What does it mean? What is it for? Is a Dom just a power-hungry bully and is a submissive weak-willed and simpering with no thoughts of their own? Every command should have a purpose – from kinky fun to something deeper. A submissive’s willingness to comply can come from multiple places.
“Spread your legs. Don’t move.”
That moment could be a spanking or a bit of kinky fun. The submissive wants the release of endorphins and pain. The Dominant wants to exert ultimate control and make physical, mental, and emotional contact with their partner. At the same time, maintaining a position keeps them both safe from accidental harm. One wrong angle and real damage can be done when partners play rough. It’s a power play, a means to a kinky end, and a safety measure.
Look at it from a different perspective, though. That moment could be a test of wills. A Dominant places their submissive into a position and expects them to maintain it until they release them. Let’s be real, if they weren’t willing, they could walk away at any moment. The reasons a submissive maintains that position varies: they’re turned on by pleasing their Dominant; they’re stubborn and refuse to falter before their Dom gives the word; they know that compliance will yield a greater prize later. Who knows what a particular sub’s reasons might be, but none of them are based on weakness. Their own integrity keeps them in place, regardless of any other reason.
Submission isn’t a two-dimensional act done by an unthinking robot or a weak-willed person who requires guidance to get through their day and life. No, submission requires thought, consent, and integrity, as well as the understanding that there’s a reason for everything that happens.
D/s is both simple and complex. Simply put, it’s a power exchange between two willing partners. The Dominant makes the rules, sets the course, and takes on the responsibility of the care of another human being. Submissives follow the rules, serve their Dominant, and should provide constant feedback in the form of continued consent, safewords, and sharing of their thoughts and feelings about the experiences they’re having. Each has their part to play, and both have their own kind of power. There is no D/s without both partners willingly engaging – they’re equal but different.
Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future WITHOUT MY EXPLICIT WRITTEN AND VERBAL PERMISSION! If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications! It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this on your page.
Open to a long-term relationship with a deserving female sub
Dominants take what they want.
Submissives do what they’re told.
Submissives should never ask for what they want. They’re not real submissives if they do.
Dominants shouldn’t ask for a submissive’s opinion or desire. It makes them appear weak.
Laughter, teasing, and silliness have no place in D/s. It’s a serious business.
Lies! All lies! Dominants and submissives are first and foremost people in a relationship. Each person must find it fulfilling in order for it to be successful and last any length of time.
Dominants don’t “take” anything without mutual agreement, consent, and prior negotiation. They need a submissive’s permission first.
Submissives do as their told and asked after ground rules have been set and consent gained.
Both Dominants and submissives should also have the freedom to express their wants, needs, and desires whenever they want.
Laughter, teasing, and silliness need to have a place in every relationship or you’re doomed before you start.
D/s is a give-and-take power dynamic. Each side feeds off of the other.
Submission: Power, Control, and Trust
A female is submissive in a relationship with a male Dominant, and from the outside, She is the stereotype. She enjoys kneeling (while entirely naked, thank you very much) at his feet. She wants pain, rough sex, and being told what to do, commanded if you will. Yep, that’s her, your “typical” submissive. Of course, there’s also the stuff you’ll only see if you look closer.
The power in my D/s relationship sits with her, the submissive. Without her cooperation and willingness to submit, there is no D/s. He may be Dominant, but he’s not dominating anyone unless he has a willing submissive. Sure, either of us could decide to stop a scene, in a moment, or even the relationship. Free will still apply. But the act of Domination from a BDSM standpoint can’t happen without a consenting and willing submissive. He can tell her to get on her knees, but only she decides if she will or not. Freedom, as a submissive, is knowing you can trust your partner enough in order to let go completely and follow the rules, guidance, commands, and directions you’re given.
On the other side, a Dominant needs to know they can trust their submissive to follow those rules and protocols and to do as they are told. Some of those rules are for the Dominant’s benefit – they get off on the control. Some are for the submissive’s benefit – they need to learn discipline. Others though are mutually beneficial. At the end of the day, it’s about integrity. Trust in one another, control over their actions, and an understanding of the power they yield – are what make a D/s relationship successful and satisfying.
Submitting: Two Perspectives
A submissive is given a command by their Dominant. What does it mean? What is it for? Is a Dom just a power-hungry bully and is a submissive weak-willed and simpering with no thoughts of their own? Every command should have a purpose – from kinky fun to something deeper. A submissive’s willingness to comply can come from multiple places.
“Spread your legs. Don’t move.”
That moment could be a spanking or a bit of kinky fun. The submissive wants the release of endorphins and pain. The Dominant wants to exert ultimate control and make physical, mental, and emotional contact with their partner. At the same time, maintaining a position keeps them both safe from accidental harm. One wrong angle and real damage can be done when partners play rough. It’s a power play, a means to a kinky end, and a safety measure.
Look at it from a different perspective, though. That moment could be a test of wills. A Dominant places their submissive into a position and expects them to maintain it until they release them. Let’s be real, if they weren’t willing, they could walk away at any moment. The reasons a submissive maintains that position varies: they’re turned on by pleasing their Dominant; they’re stubborn and refuse to falter before their Dom gives the word; they know that compliance will yield a greater prize later. Who knows what a particular sub’s reasons might be, but none of them are based on weakness. Their own integrity keeps them in place, regardless of any other reason.
Submission isn’t a two-dimensional act done by an unthinking robot or a weak-willed person who requires guidance to get through their day and life. No, submission requires thought, consent, and integrity, as well as the understanding that there’s a reason for everything that happens.
D/s is both simple and complex. Simply put, it’s a power exchange between two willing partners. The Dominant makes the rules, sets the course, and takes on the responsibility of the care of another human being. Submissives follow the rules, serve their Dominant, and should provide constant feedback in the form of continued consent, safewords, and sharing of their thoughts and feelings about the experiences they’re having. Each has their part to play, and both have their own kind of power. There is no D/s without both partners willingly engaging – they’re equal but different.
Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future WITHOUT MY EXPLICIT WRITTEN AND VERBAL PERMISSION! If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications! It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this on your page.
Open to a long-term relationship with a deserving female sub
Update date
Apr 22, 2024
Member since
Jul 16, 2019