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BlkSteeldom male
Phoenix, Arizona, United States
BlkSteel
Age
64
Relationship status
Single
About me
Old school Dom will turn you into a true slut CIS woman only you will fuck who I say when I say and how I say. No, I will not fuck you right away you have to earn the right to please me. If you're just here to get some BBC and not to learn the proper way to be a sub in the lifestyle please don't waste my time. In my Dom/sub relationships there is love, kindness, and passion. I will keep your pussy full of big dicks, you will have gangbangs and trains run on you.
I will also share you with other women at times you will fuck for my pleasure. I am your lord and master this can be an LTR if you choose to make it so, I am picky and will only accept the best is that you? If this is what you crave you will find excitement and adventure here. Tell me how as my sub what can you do to make my life more exciting. I will also walk with you through the many different disciplines of the lifestyle you may like to learn.
Open for a real long-term relationship.
For Those 20 Something's Who Think Having A Big Dick Makes You A Dom
Dominance and submission are a constant push and pull between willing partners. One leads, and the other follows. One command, the other consents. The needs of each are different – to control or to be controlled. The power and trust, however, are equal even though each partner is on the other end of the spectrum.
Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future WITHOUT MY EXPLICIT WRITTEN AND VERBAL PERMISSION! If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications! It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this on your page.
I will also share you with other women at times you will fuck for my pleasure. I am your lord and master this can be an LTR if you choose to make it so, I am picky and will only accept the best is that you? If this is what you crave you will find excitement and adventure here. Tell me how as my sub what can you do to make my life more exciting. I will also walk with you through the many different disciplines of the lifestyle you may like to learn.
Open for a real long-term relationship.
For Those 20 Something's Who Think Having A Big Dick Makes You A Dom
Dominance and submission are a constant push and pull between willing partners. One leads, and the other follows. One command, the other consents. The needs of each are different – to control or to be controlled. The power and trust, however, are equal even though each partner is on the other end of the spectrum.
Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future WITHOUT MY EXPLICIT WRITTEN AND VERBAL PERMISSION! If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications! It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this on your page.
BDSM and me
18 years as a Dom more sensual Daddy loves being a Stag spanking making you a slut willing to take you deeper if you like.
Limits
No scat or piss play, no blood or serious pain, children
What's new
The misconceptions surrounding D/s are many:
Dominants take what they want.
Submissives do what they’re told.
Submissives should never ask for what they want. They’re not real submissives if they do.
Dominants shouldn’t ask for a submissive’s opinion or desire. It makes them appear weak.
Laughter, teasing, and silliness have no place in D/s. It’s a serious business.
Lies! All lies! Dominants and submissives are first and foremost people in a relationship. Each person must find it fulfilling in order for it to be successful and last any length of time.
Dominants don’t “take” anything without mutual agreement, consent, and prior negotiation. They need a submissive’s permission first.
Submissives do as their told and asked after ground rules have been set and consent gained.
Both Dominants and submissives should also have the freedom to express their wants, needs, and desires whenever they want.
Laughter, teasing, and silliness need to have a place in every relationship or you’re doomed before you start.
D/s is a give-and-take power dynamic. Each side feeds off of the other.
Submission: Power, Control, and Trust
A female is submissive in a relationship with a male Dominant, and from the outside, She is the stereotype. She enjoys kneeling (while entirely naked, thank you very much) at his feet. She wants pain, rough sex, and being told what to do, commanded if you will. Yep, that’s her, your “typical” submissive. Of course, there’s also the stuff you’ll only see if you look closer.
The power in my D/s relationship sits with her, the submissive. Without her cooperation and willingness to submit, there is no D/s. He may be Dominant, but he’s not dominating anyone unless he has a willing submissive. Sure, either of us could decide to stop a scene, in a moment, or even the relationship. Free will still apply. But the act of Domination from a BDSM standpoint can’t happen without a consenting and willing submissive. He can tell her to get on her knees, but only she decides if she will or not. Freedom, as a submissive, is knowing you can trust your partner enough in order to let go completely and follow the rules, guidance, commands, and directions you’re given.
On the other side, a Dominant needs to know they can trust their submissive to follow those rules and protocols and to do as they are told. Some of those rules are for the Dominant’s benefit – they get off on the control. Some are for the submissive’s benefit – they need to learn discipline. Others though are mutually beneficial. At the end of the day, it’s about integrity. Trust in one another, control over their actions, and an understanding of the power they yield – are what make a D/s relationship successful and satisfying.
Submitting: Two Perspectives
A submissive is given a command by their Dominant. What does it mean? What is it for? Is a Dom just a power-hungry bully and is a submissive weak-willed and simpering with no thoughts of their own? Every command should have a purpose – from kinky fun to something deeper. A submissive’s willingness to comply can come from multiple places.
“Spread your legs. Don’t move.”
That moment could be a spanking or a bit of kinky fun. The submissive wants the release of endorphins and pain. The Dominant wants to exert ultimate control and make physical, mental, and emotional contact with their partner. At the same time, maintaining a position keeps them both safe from accidental harm. One wrong angle and real damage can be done when partners play rough. It’s a power play, a means to a kinky end, and a safety measure.
Look at it from a different perspective, though. That moment could be a test of wills. A Dominant places their submissive into a position and expects them to maintain it until they release them. Let’s be real, if they weren’t willing, they could walk away at any moment. The reasons a submissive maintains that position varies: they’re turned on by pleasing their Dominant; they’re stubborn and refuse to falter before their Dom gives the word; they know that compliance will yield a greater prize later. Who knows what a particular sub’s reasons might be, but none of them are based on weakness. Their own integrity keeps them in place, regardless of any other reason.
Submission isn’t a two-dimensional act done by an unthinking robot or a weak-willed person who requires guidance to get through their day and life. No, submission requires thought, consent, and integrity, as well as the understanding that there’s a reason for everything that happens.
D/s is both simple and complex. Simply put, it’s a power exchange between two willing partners. The Dominant makes the rules, sets the course, and takes on the responsibility of the care of another human being. Submissives follow the rules, serve their Dominant, and should provide constant feedback in the form of continued consent, safewords, and sharing of their thoughts and feelings about the experiences they’re having. Each has their part to play, and both have their own kind of power. There is no D/s without both partners willingly engaging – they’re equal but different.
Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future WITHOUT MY EXPLICIT WRITTEN AND VERBAL PERMISSION! If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications! It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this on your page.
Open to a long-term relationship with a deserving female sub
Dominants take what they want.
Submissives do what they’re told.
Submissives should never ask for what they want. They’re not real submissives if they do.
Dominants shouldn’t ask for a submissive’s opinion or desire. It makes them appear weak.
Laughter, teasing, and silliness have no place in D/s. It’s a serious business.
Lies! All lies! Dominants and submissives are first and foremost people in a relationship. Each person must find it fulfilling in order for it to be successful and last any length of time.
Dominants don’t “take” anything without mutual agreement, consent, and prior negotiation. They need a submissive’s permission first.
Submissives do as their told and asked after ground rules have been set and consent gained.
Both Dominants and submissives should also have the freedom to express their wants, needs, and desires whenever they want.
Laughter, teasing, and silliness need to have a place in every relationship or you’re doomed before you start.
D/s is a give-and-take power dynamic. Each side feeds off of the other.
Submission: Power, Control, and Trust
A female is submissive in a relationship with a male Dominant, and from the outside, She is the stereotype. She enjoys kneeling (while entirely naked, thank you very much) at his feet. She wants pain, rough sex, and being told what to do, commanded if you will. Yep, that’s her, your “typical” submissive. Of course, there’s also the stuff you’ll only see if you look closer.
The power in my D/s relationship sits with her, the submissive. Without her cooperation and willingness to submit, there is no D/s. He may be Dominant, but he’s not dominating anyone unless he has a willing submissive. Sure, either of us could decide to stop a scene, in a moment, or even the relationship. Free will still apply. But the act of Domination from a BDSM standpoint can’t happen without a consenting and willing submissive. He can tell her to get on her knees, but only she decides if she will or not. Freedom, as a submissive, is knowing you can trust your partner enough in order to let go completely and follow the rules, guidance, commands, and directions you’re given.
On the other side, a Dominant needs to know they can trust their submissive to follow those rules and protocols and to do as they are told. Some of those rules are for the Dominant’s benefit – they get off on the control. Some are for the submissive’s benefit – they need to learn discipline. Others though are mutually beneficial. At the end of the day, it’s about integrity. Trust in one another, control over their actions, and an understanding of the power they yield – are what make a D/s relationship successful and satisfying.
Submitting: Two Perspectives
A submissive is given a command by their Dominant. What does it mean? What is it for? Is a Dom just a power-hungry bully and is a submissive weak-willed and simpering with no thoughts of their own? Every command should have a purpose – from kinky fun to something deeper. A submissive’s willingness to comply can come from multiple places.
“Spread your legs. Don’t move.”
That moment could be a spanking or a bit of kinky fun. The submissive wants the release of endorphins and pain. The Dominant wants to exert ultimate control and make physical, mental, and emotional contact with their partner. At the same time, maintaining a position keeps them both safe from accidental harm. One wrong angle and real damage can be done when partners play rough. It’s a power play, a means to a kinky end, and a safety measure.
Look at it from a different perspective, though. That moment could be a test of wills. A Dominant places their submissive into a position and expects them to maintain it until they release them. Let’s be real, if they weren’t willing, they could walk away at any moment. The reasons a submissive maintains that position varies: they’re turned on by pleasing their Dominant; they’re stubborn and refuse to falter before their Dom gives the word; they know that compliance will yield a greater prize later. Who knows what a particular sub’s reasons might be, but none of them are based on weakness. Their own integrity keeps them in place, regardless of any other reason.
Submission isn’t a two-dimensional act done by an unthinking robot or a weak-willed person who requires guidance to get through their day and life. No, submission requires thought, consent, and integrity, as well as the understanding that there’s a reason for everything that happens.
D/s is both simple and complex. Simply put, it’s a power exchange between two willing partners. The Dominant makes the rules, sets the course, and takes on the responsibility of the care of another human being. Submissives follow the rules, serve their Dominant, and should provide constant feedback in the form of continued consent, safewords, and sharing of their thoughts and feelings about the experiences they’re having. Each has their part to play, and both have their own kind of power. There is no D/s without both partners willingly engaging – they’re equal but different.
Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future WITHOUT MY EXPLICIT WRITTEN AND VERBAL PERMISSION! If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications! It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this on your page.
Open to a long-term relationship with a deserving female sub
Update date
Jan 14, 2023
Member since
Jul 16, 2019