Knightsundere

sub male

23

In a monogamous relationship

Hi ^-^
I'm Owen, I'm an indie video game director, and I'm a sub (straight, please don't DM me if you're male). Big section on myself first, section on the romantic stuff farther below! I am currently taken ^-^

I do art (pixel art and am gradually improving pencil/ink pen traditional, eventually aiming to become proficient with painting), writing, and general game design/direction (I suck at paperwork). I really, really enjoy it c: and I can confidently say that I've found my intended long term career, though as a backup I've considered teaching in some form. I have a single cat named Hannah that I absolutely love above all else, though she's getting old :(. I'm a quiet, shy, but passionate and curious guy - I like seeing things reach their full potential, I highly value loyalty and authenticity, and I would like to think that I have a pretty good grasp on what I like, what I don't like, and what's important to me. My favorite time of day is 4am to 7am, since it's nice and quiet, peaceful, and usually a little brisk. I love forests, mountains, and fog above all else. Vastly prefer too cold to too hot. I work from home and plan to keep it that way, so my schedule is extremely flexible. And I can... take a lot of naps :').

I'm a huge fan of video games. I play a handful of multiplayer titles but I'm most interested in singleplayer gameplay-oriented stuff like Bloodborne, Metal Gear, Fallout New Vegas, Skyrim, Baldur's Gate, Bioshock, and a very wide swathe of indie games. I've made a hobby of studying games to try and pick up design notes for my own projects, so there are a lot of games I've played all the way through in order to get the full picture (despite thinking that they weren't... great, lol). I consider games as art forms to the likes of a movie or book, though with unique qualities, but also keep them at an arm's distance as my creative passion, not as my life. I realize it's kind of spooky to say that I focus so much on what's commonly thought of as a negative habit, but the games that typically prioritize making addictive tendencies a forefront of the design (gacha games, multiplayer "daily task" types, infinite round-based systems) are not what I try and engage with except for hanging out with buddies.
Aside from games I work on my art a lot of course, but I'm also a bit of a history geek and I'd like to get more into reading, mostly as a collection source for worldbuilding and design. I'm particularly read up on war/conflict, mostly because it's just so overwhelmingly important to the development of human rights, to the plight of peoples, to the perceptions that exist within the mentality of the human mind... I'm not fascinated by the death, hopefully that comes across :'). It's just immensely interesting how the foundations of modern society were influenced by things like the terrain of the Levant, the will of college students in Beijing, the mistakes of British decolonization, and so on. I would consider myself anti-war, but not through traditional lines. I consider education the most valuable resource on the planet.
I'm a huge fan of cosmic horror, cyberpunk, sci fi, Western, high fashion, and avant garde aesthetics. Anything that's got an original twist to it is something I try to appreciate - slight hint of magic, little bit of luck, dash of corny, is just like the nice seasoning on a good tri-tip...
I'm not a huge movie guy but I love LOTR, Wes Anderson, The Princess Bride, Mad Max, and Akira. Blade Runner is great, I was a huge Star Wars: The Clone Wars fan as a kid. I don't watch many tv shows or any anime but I really enjoyed Cowboy Bebop, Chernobyl, True Detective, and Attack on Titan. Got a big list of shows to catch up on though, so maybe we can work through that sometime?
I'm pretty flexible when it comes to music! I like something from everything, but I'd say I'm most interested by synthwave/darkwave, late 90s/00s rap, and whichever of my playlists I decide to exclusively listen to on any one week. I mostly like everything with interesting bass :> For metal related, I like speed/powermetal.

I don't crush or harm bugs intentionally. I think all lifeforms are fellow voyagers, despite their perceived simplicities. I think the goal of all human interaction should be to find peaceful resolutions to problems that have no good fixes. I think nuance and collection of information before a conclusion are very attractive qualities. I think being calm and deescalating tensions is a hugely superior way of handling things to "trying to get things done" and "pushing through". I don't like assigning people to any particular identity without having fully explored their understanding of things, and I don't like being assigned myself. Life is really complex at times, really simple at others, and in the in-betweens, you just gotta take the options that keeps things cool for everyone.

Here's a gif of me, very SFW (this gif is CRAZY old now, I was 20 at the time) ; https://gyazo.com/e1e4bd1831196530c919cc9a64067365

As for a relationship o:

I would like to fully commit to you once we've had a few years together, and I can understand what you're like during bad times, in bad places, and I can trust that you've got the full picture on me in turn. That committal would be an iron weld that solidifies what can be considered "my soul" to yours. I'm not "religious", per-se, but I am spiritual in the sense that I believe in an afterlife of some variety, and my greatest desire would be to see you there, both literally and in terms of making sure you come to a place of happiness and rest for the present, for the near future, and for the potential eternal future. I think of life as being very difficult, exhausting, saddening, but ultimately meaningful and something I consider a necessary, inspiring, and reassuring preparation for... whatever comes afterwards. That journey is something I am so, so desperate to find help on, and to help with. It's LONELY, and it's hard, I think for most people. I don't enjoy the idea of sailing across a hostile sea, as beautiful as it is, without ever finding someone to hold and be held by. I am monogamous, believe it or not.

As for more uh, not insane-sounding things, I love cuddling lol! I'm super touch-oriented. I show love with massages, doting, just trying to be as helpful as I can. I'm very interested in a more house-husband based role, but am open to any reasonable arrangement. I've flirted with the idea of total power exchange/more classical dominance, and it's something I'm super excited by the thought of, but it's also pretty logistically complicated, so I'd want to discuss that quite a bit to get common understandings (but seriously, if that's what you're looking for, I'm down). I'm planning on being more than financially self-sufficient with my game dev career, no desires of being a leech. That said, would never turn down a complete nuclear family gender roleswap (okay at this point I should just say I'm openminded to any relationship format). I like quiet moments together, gentle caressing, firm, enveloping hugs.

Pressure is the sensation that drew me most to BDSM. Slightly quirky interest, but anything that applies pressure and closeness (bondage, restraints of any kind, smothering, mummification, just good old fashioned aggressive cuddling) is what I love most. I've got a Venn diagram overlap of artistic, sexual, and aesthetic interest in fetish fashion (latex, leather, harnesses, what have you), and all of that includes some aspect of tightness, shapewear, form-fitting stuff, that I'd like to integrate into my wardrobe to tasteful levels (not trying to scare anyone). I consider arousal as inherent of an emotion as sadness/anger, and am very comfortable maintaining arousal for long periods of time and as a component of day to day life. I think sexuality is super underappreciated as a boon to the enjoyment of our time on Earth, so it's not something I really care to deny myself. If were living together, I'd love it if you came in and checked in on me after lunch, wrapped me in your arms, squeezed me tight, and we cuddled quietly for a few minutes in my desk chair as I was in the middle of drawing for work. Sex as a concept is a... human thing, for me, not a quick and dirty sort of explosive interaction. Realistically I'm not as keen on "fucking" as most would be but somehow still have a really strong libido, so, take that as you will. I'm always down to talk about it.

Kinks!

I'm down for the majority of usual stuff (bondage, any restraints, petplay, servitude, edging, humiliation, etc.). I care most about what you enjoy, and I think any reasonable partner I'm with would probably be interested in the reverse. You don't like something I do? That's okay, I don't need it that badly probably, we don't have to do it. You want to do something I don't like? Make it a punishment for me! If I like it, it's not a punishment anyways, right? Ask me anything :)


You got all the way down here! Wow lmao! I swear I'm not as nuts as I sound :< Thank you so much for reading. PLEASE include a little information about yourself on your profile, it's difficult for me to start conversations that you'll enjoy otherwise. Unless you like questions! <3

My limits are extreme pain, blood, ageplay, feet, scat [ugh just feels gross to type] and anal in the licking sense. Just doesn't seem hygienic to me. Monogamous so nothing involving others outside the relationship.

Apr 28, 2024

Sep 16, 2019