Consensual Blackmail

Yeah, totally. I've got plans for setting it up in tandem with hypnosis so one could provide the blackmail information, then be forced to forget having done so, then blackmailed with that information. ...

Thu Sep 05, 2024 8:57 pm • 10 Replies • 1114 Views

Is it weird to want a relationship first before diving into dynamics?

No, not at all, and sub to sub, I think outside of professional dominatrix's, that mentality is appreciated. Communities like here, where it's kind of already "known" what intentions are, you can hone ...

Wed Aug 21, 2024 7:55 am • 6 Replies • 594 Views

How much should I Share on first contact?

Have you actually been diagnosed with
PTSD ?
Even if not, it's fairly common lingo for trauma in his/my age bracket. Strange question.

It shouldn't be lingo it's a serious diagnosis that shouldn ...

Tue Jul 30, 2024 5:56 am • 22 Replies • 2021 Views

How much should I Share on first contact?

Have you actually been diagnosed with
PTSD ?
Even if not, it's fairly common lingo for trauma in his/my age bracket. Strange question.

Sat Jul 27, 2024 11:06 pm • 22 Replies • 2021 Views

TPE Discussion

Oh I love this topic, great post

I think it's, at least in my interpretation, a precursor to expected immortality. Which is NUTS to say, but in my mind, if you're giving over total control to s ...

Fri Jul 19, 2024 2:27 am • 12 Replies • 1132 Views

Age Is Just A Number

Number is less important than where someone is in life, but I tend to try and stick near my own age since, if you're within such lifestyles that partnership is forever, it wouldn't be super great to b ...

Fri Jul 19, 2024 12:10 am • 41 Replies • 3682 Views

Thoughts on the new Seeking feature?

Didn't see a thread for this, very sorry if it's meant to be discussed somewhere else.
It's a cool idea, not too drastic of an overhaul. Updating personal ads lent itself to some sort of daily upkee ...

Tue Apr 23, 2024 12:06 pm • 18 Replies • 2085 Views

Submissive Male Persona

I personally consider masculinity to be a set of traits and principles (persistence, dedication, willpower, stoicism, brotherhood) that are completely compatible with a submissive relationship, so yes ...

Tue Mar 12, 2024 11:03 pm • 15 Replies • 1517 Views

My ex revealed his kink to me and I don't know what to do

aradialspire's advice is very sage, I'd take that. In addition though, polyamorous gangbanging with a hierarchy and a self-proclaimed alpha male situationship is not something for "on the fence"-ing a ...

Thu Jan 18, 2024 12:51 am • 24 Replies • 4302 Views

Being told no thanks

Well since i seem to be the devil's advocate, there is another issue. That being if a sub (male) reads a Domme's profile and crafts a polite, considered introductory message...only to be met with sile ...

Mon Jan 08, 2024 2:23 pm • 20 Replies • 3426 Views