Submissive Male Persona

I personally consider masculinity to be a set of traits and principles (persistence, dedication, willpower, stoicism, brotherhood) that are completely compatible with a submissive relationship, so yes ...

Tue Mar 12, 2024 11:03 pm • 15 Replies • 697 Views

My ex revealed his kink to me and I don't know what to do

aradialspire's advice is very sage, I'd take that. In addition though, polyamorous gangbanging with a hierarchy and a self-proclaimed alpha male situationship is not something for "on the fence"-ing a ...

Thu Jan 18, 2024 12:51 am • 21 Replies • 2294 Views

Being told no thanks

Well since i seem to be the devil's advocate, there is another issue. That being if a sub (male) reads a Domme's profile and crafts a polite, considered introductory message...only to be met with sile ...

Mon Jan 08, 2024 2:23 pm • 20 Replies • 2135 Views

So… anyone here have advice on how to make your own bdsm toys?

You can make an armbinder out of a pair of sweatpants/pajamas. Thread the head through one leg, pull it all the way down over the neck and under the chin. Put both arms through the other leg (without ...

Fri Nov 24, 2023 11:48 pm • 16 Replies • 1527 Views

One Month. How About You?

4 years now. Kinda wish there were more people in their 20s on here, lol. Learned that kink is applicable both as a fantasy, and as a conduit for understanding of a relationship. And also as a damned ...

Thu Nov 23, 2023 11:19 pm • 15 Replies • 1253 Views

What Is A Common Misconception About You?

All of my friends and family (and half the men over 30 on this site) think I'm gay :'(
Or at least, the ones I don't hide my fashion sense from. I'm very straight, it's just more comfortable for me ...

Mon Nov 06, 2023 6:33 am • 35 Replies • 2778 Views

Do nice guys finish last even in kink??

Well there are legal protections against discrimination in hiring processes that prevent that, there are no such obligations for women considering whether they want to be in a relationship with you. ...

Mon Jun 12, 2023 9:11 am • 37 Replies • 3674 Views

Big penis humiliation..?

"what aspects do you even comment on to make it humiliating?" I haven't done it lol but maybe something like this -
"You've got all of this and you still can't do anything?/can't fuck?"
"Why do yo ...

Mon Jun 12, 2023 8:06 am • 14 Replies • 2385 Views

Do nice guys finish last even in kink??

I think you're reading into it a little too much, if someone turns you down both without ghosting and without directly insulting some part of you, she's (A) compassionate enough towards you to not wan ...

Mon Jun 12, 2023 7:50 am • 37 Replies • 3674 Views

Is it really that difficult…

I get about a 6:1 ratio of male dominants (vs. women) sending me the dumbest shit despite being straight. Men

Thu May 18, 2023 2:46 pm • 25 Replies • 3420 Views