Kait

sub female

25

Single

I wrote submissive, but I can occasionally dominate if the mood and person are right. Hoping to be more active in the kink community and make some friends. Besides making friends in the future I would like to find a long-term relationship with BDSM involved in it, but not solely the focus. My end goal is I want to come home to someone I view as a friend who is not fixated on the dom and sub roles being the majority of our interactions. I am slow in getting to know people relationship-wise and am not looking for anything quick. Not looking for any online play at the moment since I am going to basics for the National Guard on November 6th and won't be back till late June, so only looking for conversation until then. If you are looking for more structure with the master and submissive mentality that's more of a scene I like on occasion, than what I actually desire day to day, and will only do with someone I know well and trust. I like gentle or calm doms, if you try to demand and take charge it just causes a lot of anxiety especially if I do not know you well. If you are the type to give dominant commands and try to pass them off as "respect" before I have verbally told you I am your submissive do not message me.

I like impact play and have an interest in using candles and seeing if that is something I like, if it is it would be cool to try fire whipping one day, but that is probably me biting off more than I can chew. Biting, hair pulling, choking (not breath play), nipple play, light use of plugs, and proper hip grabbing are some of my favorite things. I love serving as a show of my affection to my partner. It would be awesome to have the opportunity once I find a dom to go to the local infliction hall one day. My love for BDSM is more on the tame side, but my absolute favorite thing is leather. I love collars and full-body harnesses it just looks beautiful and really builds my confidence to wear.

Sex, sexting before I have decided to be a submissive, electro play, cold temperature play, body fluids, all forms of dark or taboo play.

Oct 29, 2023

Sep 30, 2019