DeepRoots
dom male

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Virginia, United States
Age
45
About me
*** Admire, don't steal. That is laziness***

If you are finding uplifting communication keeps ending drastically under pressure.
Please move on. 

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Some masquerade in the lifestyle, and some live it. 

While I am not crude, I will not tickle the ears of a shallow husk seeking free praise.

I will not gratify zombies.

I am a teacher and mentor. I can work with, assist, guide, and encourage; however, I am not here to rescue or fix anyone.

I am not for the simple.

I have no desire to engage in games of greed.

There are proper like minds, and I've been able to communicate with some, for which I am grateful.




      I  have traveled and explored. As with any venture, I've experienced the highs and lows. My journey has yielded many rewards, offered lessons learned, and an opportunity to watch the lifestyle evolve. I enjoy sharing information and techniques. I'm what has come to be known as Sapiosexual with primal, nurturing,  sadistic attributes, among others.

      A Natural Sigma ( before it was defined as such), I assume Alpha roles as a part of day-to-day life and occupation. I enjoy good conversations and people.  However, I acknowledge that what is for one may not be for another. 

      I wholly believe you must be able to touch the mind before the body. Take the time to remove the layers and explore.

      The definition for words is "a single distinct meaningful element of speech or writing, used with others (or sometimes alone).." Many of us use words. They are beautiful, powerful, enlightening, even hurtful. Some thrive on, hang on to, or constantly scrutinize them. Words bring us together or divide us; use them carefully.

      I am not the societal norm nor fit the insta-dom mold.  I am who I am and possess what few may come to know. Ask, and I'll gladly inform you. The community is just that: community. The lifestyle is a different realm altogether. Traversing the mind is akin to walking down an open path. Each step reveals more 

      I am a poet, and I enjoy photography and art. Painting is one of my favorite expressions. Every brush stroke communicates thoughts, feelings, and desires that may not translate into words. Poetry allows me to speak my true self. Photography captures priceless memories and expressions.

      Some think me dangerous ( I'm not easily swayed or manipulated by energy, the physical exterior, or assets), others fascinating. Suppose you are thrilled or get off on the fumblings of the simple. You will not find it here.

      To reiterate, I am a teacher and mentor; however, I am not here to rescue or fix anyone.  Ask whatever questions you like. I am respectful, a gentle beast. I love, I feast, I provide, I devour.  While I am not crude, I will not tickle the ears of a shallow husk seeking free praise. I will not gratify zombies. Where one may drool and see a diamond, another may see rot and decay. 

      I will not apologize or be ashamed of who or what ( The Wolf, The Lion) I am.  Remaining faithful to self is why I can stand, encourage others, and hold my head high. Conforming is simply another word for existing instead of living.
BDSM and me
BDSM has been an intricate part of my life's journey.  It has been 25 years since it all began. My mentor discovered me at the age of 19 while living in Alaska. The initial dialog was awkward as I didn't fully know how to communicate my feelings. There was also a 22-year age difference.

      She was a well-known and respected  Domme who worked in an adult store part-time to people watch. It was on my third visit that she plucked me from the void that was A group of hormone-raging young men browsing the porn section.         
     
      While they looked for videos, I was looking for books. Particularly on Impact play and what I would come to know as Shibari. Little did I know. That encounter would lead to my education and formal training as a Dominant.
     
      Initially, it was all about rules, reading, protocol techniques, and communication. Shadowing and assisting came later on. Learning and seeing how all the pieces fit has become invaluable

      I love what the lifestyle stands for and its essence. My primary skill sets consist of Pleasure reward, Impact play, Bondage, Sensory deprivation, Orgasm denial, Sharp play, Role and Wordplay, Suspension, Service acceptance, Reward Molding /Breaking ( if you don't know, ask), and Opening Gates. I believe in remaining authentic and relevant. As such, honing one's skills is essential. Learning and seeing how all the pieces fit has become invaluable.

       Symbiosis is essential. A Dom/Domme cannot truly dominate if the gift of submission is not earned. Don't force the fit; not every Dom/Domme is for every sub. The right motivation can yield the appropriate response, but if it doesn't. Know how to have the conversation that will assist in going beyond the veil.

Greetings to my fellow Old Bloods. 

To be cont.
Limits

Anything that would jeopardize life or limb
Beastiality 
Casket play
Financial squandering
Human waste 
Minors
What's new
12/22/2024

Some lifestyle tattoos are not what they seem. Sadly, some believe they are wearing a symbol communicating association, only to find out otherwise. Do your research. 

11/9/2024

Dancing in the void is different. The delicate moves are associated with the melody of deafening quiet.  It's a beautiful melody indeed. 

9/24/2024

I have discovered a shade of red that makes me smile.
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9/17/2024
To open gates, unseen to the naked eye. To see what speaks, yet does not possess form. To hold that which otherwise slips through the cracks.
Many fear the beast they do not know. 
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9/10/2024
To have the mind fed nourishes in ways that words cannot explain, "Thank you."
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9/7/2024
Being bound to and dwelling with fools leads to destruction. 
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7/29/2024
Invisible rope is my favorite when binding. The strength of words can be limitless.
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7/30/2024
Are there any fellow poets in the room?
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Choose the presentation carefully, and earn authentic interaction.
Update date
Dec 24, 2024
Member since
Oct 20, 2019
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