Draconious Master

dom male

37

In a polyamorous relationship

My name is Master Matthew. I am who I am and won't change for anyone.

I am here for many reasons. We are all on our own journeys through life. Sometimes our paths through the jungle cross sometimes we may be miles apart.

I have always been highly ambitious and career driven. Yet I love the outdoors and being in nature. I enjoy working with my hands and building things. Sitting on a porch in a rocking chair sounds like an amazing evening.

BDSM has been my life for the last 12 years. I started in college and have realized that this is who I am. I have learned so much and have in turn been teaching and mentoring others. I have had a wide variety of experience when it comes to subs. I have had subs that needed to just let go in the bedroom, subs that needed me for important decisions, and subs that relied on me for all decisions.

I myself am a Dominant due to childhood trauma. I crave control and hate not being in control of things. I have been forced to deal with this due to being in the vanilla world but behind closed doors I truly enjoy controlling everything.

However to me it is ultimately my job to ensure my subs happiness. Any real Dom knows this and only the wannabes and fakes truly think it is all about them. A sub focuses on the happiness of the Dom so the Dom needs to focus on the happiness of the sub.

We are yin and yang. Two different pieces yet when together make us balanced. Now in the vanilla world the two halves are equal 50 50 both people being the same. Yet in the chocolate world (BDSM) the yin and yang are different sizes. You can use this analogy for levels of control, kinks, and more. Ultimately it demonstrates that we need our counterpart in order to get balance. However let's say you have a sub who only wants to give up 10% of control however the Dom wants 90+% of the control in this case you wouldn't fit well and wind up butting heads all the time.

What I am trying to say is take your time make sure whoever you are with fits with what you need. If not then you need to find someone else. For ultimately life is too short to waste being miserable.

We walk through the jungle of life
Our actions cut like a knife
Through all the toil and strife
As I search for an amazing wife

You never where you will be
You never know where you will go
You just have to wait and see
You just have to go with the flow

I like to have control
And am able to think things through
I know it takes a toll
So just give in and be you

If we only stop to think
To look at who we are

Feb 11, 2022

Oct 25, 2019