In a polyamorous relationship
Me, the short version (TL;dr) - tactile, sapiosexual, poly, and Aquarius.
For me, this is primarily about submission and/or kinky fckery. Sex is nice, but only when included in one of the other two. I am very service-oriented. I have a wide range of skills (beyond sexual or domestic) that can be used to make your life easier. A former Sir called me his own personal Siri since locating and curating information is something I do exceptionally well (and fast). Or if you prefer, I would love to assist you with your hobbies - I know the difference between a 9/16 and 14mm, can read a tape, be an extra set of hands, or play sous to your chef. I adore working with leather and would love to relearn my old skills with it.
I am active in the local Community.
Vanilla me loves the outdoors - ocean, forest, etc. I love road trips, grilling, and seeing local historical sites. TV (if I watch it) generally includes NatGeo, Discovery, Bravo, and History channels. I love casual games - board, cards, party, etc. My politics are a blend of liberal and conservative - including gun rights and civil rights. Kool-aid drinkers on either extreme won't be a good fit
Fully vaccinated and boosted. My Covid protocols are regularly updated based on the ever-changing science, not on what FB or politics says.
If you do contact me, please include the word pumpkin in your message so that I know you read this far.
Mobility impaired so no dancing or long walks on the beach.
If you want to know more, you can find me as CheekiCheshire on FL and FB.
People have different reasons to get into BDSM, and different things they want out of it.
My reasons are roughly -
*60% Power/Authority Exchange (submission),
*30% Play/Scene (rope, impact, etc) and
*10% sex (generally as a part of submission or scene).
What I am looking for - and currently have found ✅ -
✅ Dom/Master - I crave submission. My eventual goal is a modified 24/7 power exchange...but a relationship like that takes a long time to build. I am not open to living together for the foreseeable future.
✅ Caregiver- I have a Middle (10-12?) who is playfully bratty (yet obedient to Papi's rules). She needs cuddles, nurturing, stuffies...and cocoa
My limits (so far): ABDL, needle play, nun/priest play, scat, watersports, waterboarding, gunplay, knife/needle play. There are a few others, but those a best explained by a conversation.
Soft limits - cream pie, bareback, other unprotected sex.
Partner needs to be age-appropriate (40+) for anything sexual. For non-sexual play, age doesn't matter.
If you want more details about my likes, limits, etc, they are easily available on Fet. RACK/PRICK