missusK
sub female

Alberta, Canada
Age
42
About me
All images are my own and under copyright. Use without permission is prohibited (and just plain rude!).

Hello! I am a sex blogger where I depict my kinky life with erotic writings and imagery (no, I won't tell you what my blog is). My friends call me missusK. I write erotic content for numerous publications, and run an online magazine.

I am here to learn, to educate, and to perhaps meet someone with whom I can find comfortable compatibility.
BDSM and me
I am a submissive. It's not a role. It's who I am, in all parts of life. I've been told many times, I have slave tendencies.

I am married. While we play with kink, we are not D/s - although we were at one time. We have a mutual understanding. I'm his wife first, everything else comes second. This does make finding a compatible dynamic tough.
It takes time from my day, as does being a mother. Any potential Dominants will need to be understanding of that.

I am evolving, changing, morphing. Becoming who I should have been all along. It's been a process. Many trials, tons of errors. But I know who I am, and what I am willing to do to get what I crave. More importantly, what I'm not.
I'm not looking to hook-up, for a part-time gig, or for friends with benefits. I'm too old to play games with my submission. I'm not looking for something strictly on-line, or to be a play partner.
Limits
Children/animals, permanent marks, needles/sharps, blood play, scat, genital mutilation/torture (hard limit), age play (DD/lg is not the same thing), race play (info here), caning/bullwhips (soft limits), trampling, strangulation (not the same as choking), isolation/solitary

need a full list of limits to better know yourself? Check out my BDSM limits online. Fill it out and send it to your partner.
What's new
If you've messaged me and I've not replied, it could be because of one of many things.
1) I'm a busy gal. Life is sometimes hectic. I'm notoriously horrible at answering my phone or replying to messages. It's nothing personal. As a writer, I spend a lot of time in my head.
2) I'm an introvert until I get to know you (and then you may regret getting to know me)
3) I don't enjoy small talk
Intelligence is the sexiest thing you can offer me
4) your profile is bare or doesn't contain limits. Boundaries tell people how to treat us. If you don't set any, I won't let you set them for me.
5) you begin with, "what are you looking for?" My profile is very thorough and I won't teach you how to treat me.

Be yourself. Everyone else is taken. I want the original, not the reproduction.
Update date
Jan 19, 2023
Member since
Nov 27, 2019
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