submissiveclay
sub male

Connecticut, United States
Age
44
Relationship status
Single
About me
hello and thank You so much for taking the time to read my profile, it is a work in process as i wish to give You as much information as possible so You can determine if You want to reach out to me. please read the entire profile, many questions You may have will be answered here

if You are located outside of my area but are interested please feel free to reach out to me. i am adventurous enough to travel when trust and time warrants

about me: in shape, caucasion, height to weight appropriate (5'8" 158#) boy next door type, very open minded and obedient submissive male with 20 years experience that includes several Dominants and two Masters. i have the ability to wipe my submissive hard drive so You can mold me to Your specific needs. high school educated but well spoken and learned & understanding the import lessons of life. as a submissive and slave i was brought up right.

what i seek:
first and foremost to be the absolute source of pleasure for You when I serve You. i seek to submit to You and serve You.
specifically, i seek Dominant gay or bi men, couples (mm/mf), and groups as well as sadists, please note the emphasis is on who are Dominant, who are seeking someone to submit to their desires. activities could range from massage, bdsm, to sexual servitude and/or slavery growing to the possibility of full time house boy or house slavery. service can range from a one time encounter to regular service. if You are fairly new to Domination, my patience and experience can help You build on Your willful desires,

what i would bring to the table:
seriousness, actually meet You, complete submission, obedience, serious minded service, a clean drug and disease free body, few limits, high pain threshold, photo and video friendly body. the main benefit above my complete submission is that You would have the benefit of a mature submissive with a slim and fit twinkish body. i believe delayed obedience is disobedience.

availability:
although i am very flexible it is rare that i may be able to meet You the same day that we first start speaking. i, like many others, wish to meet a Dominant who is safe and sane. i should think You would want to get to know a slave or submissive a little prior to opening your home to him.

how i have experienced the growth of a commitment:
while i recognize each individual circumstance is different, generally speaking, i have experienced relationships whether casual or more of a commitment of time of service to develop over a period of time. generally speaking, service begins in shorter increments (one to several hours) with time being added to each subsequent session giving You the ideal amount of time to determine if additional service is wanted or warranted. i am ok with one time sessions and open to longer termed service.

what i understand M/s D/s to be: i understand that submission starts as organic as other relationships, gradually. to me this can mean starting off with a first time encounter of an hour, two or three giving You ample time to inspect, learn and discover if a second meeting should be in order. if You desire more meetings, weekly, bi weekly, weekend or once monthly service is definitely an option, training and learning should be as organic and normal as any other relationship working its way up as any other relationship does.as trust is built limits are removed. consensual non consensual is a special place when a submissive has come to know and trust the Dominant.

what i am not interested in (some hard limits):
a findom, blood, scat, drinking urine, permanent injury, permanent marks [except in such case where there is a long standing period of Domination where You decide to collar me and after i am taken as a slave, registration of me to You in the Master/slave registry, when at that time You may decide at Your discretion to tattoo said registration bar code on me or other small form of identifying mark], animals, anything illegal.

what You will not get with me: long sexual conversations while first interviewing me, games, i will not ghost or disappear. if You make a time to meet, i will show up. what we agree to is what You will get.

an overview of my experience:
as stated above several Dominants and two Masters, bdsm, group play. most service has been sexual and submission to all aspects of bdsm with some domestic service, massage and body work, overall source of pleasure with again the emphasis on sexual submission. my main focus of service has been mostly bdsm and sexual submission/slavery.

Misc:
while i recognize there are many aspects to fetish lifestyles, filling Your specific needs will be my only goal. i truly am fulfilled when he feeling of another owning or dominating me at their will not only by pushing my limits but requiring me to behave in a way that is far different than the norm for me.

meetup location: Dominant must provide

long term goal:
eventual servitude or ownership (however that may work out)

personal misc:
former adult model

message me for more information and we can definitely make plans to discuss if what You seek can be found in my submission to You and or Yours.
BDSM and me
20 years exp, (12 years hard core) high pain threshold, adventurous nature. best suited for agressive Dominant natured Masters that take control and train with a slow fade from black and white to gray.

group and multiple person friendly

i understand delayed obedience is disobedience.

lower case letters except for You, Your, Yours, Master, Dominant signifies Your authority and superiority over the sub
Limits
a findom, blood, scat, drinking urine, permanent injury, permanent marks [except in such case where there is a long standing period of Domination where You decide to collar me and after i am taken as a slave, registration of me to You in the Master/slave registry, when at that time You may decide at Your discretion to tattoo said registration bar code on me or other small form of identifying mark], animals, anything illegal.
What's new
a serious effort to find a Dominant and or eventual Master
Update date
Mar 14, 2021
Member since
Dec 16, 2019
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