Updating as of May 24, 2026 :)
So, there's a lot of ways I can write this profile, and I think I've been around this site long enough to know that I should be honest and upfront with who I am, what I want, and where I'm at in my life. Please read along for exactly that. :)
Who I am - Sweet and sassy (the more I trust you, the more you'll see the sassy side). I'm incredibly hard-working, driven, and career oriented. Currently, I've worked up to my dream job in a career that is my passion. I'm also a doctoral student. It's also the reason I'm staying anonymous, but of course, if there's a connection, happy to officially introduce myself to those select individuals. Other things about me: I care deeply about the people in my life, love traveling, and reading all the books (if you know about #booktok, you'll get extra points from me ;)
What I want - A dom. I should probably expand...haha Although I would welcome a friendship with others on the site, at the end of the day, I joined years ago to better understand this community, to find out who I am a little more, and to ultimately cherish a relationship with a dom. Finding that is...hard...but I'm a hopeless optimist, and I just know that I can't give up on at least trying to find that person.
Where I'm at in my life - Well, I really want to put an effort into my personal life. I've been focused on my career and my education for a while now (as well as developing who I am as a person). Now, I feel settled, and it feels great. It feels like emotionally and mentally, I'm ready to invite someone into my life who I know I can give my time and energy to...it just needs to be someone who can reciprocate that in their own way.
I hope I've said enough to give you an idea about who I am. Feel free to message me - I'd love to chat! I appreciate honesty above anything, so yes, let's chat, but also, if it ends up that I'm not what you're looking for, that's okay too, and I wish you the absolute best!
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Submissive
85% Rope bunny
73% Voyeur
71% Slave
68% Masochist
66% Brat
62% Primal (Prey)
55% Experimentalist
44% Pet
44% Vanilla
41% Exhibitionist
33% Degradee
27% Non-monogamist
4% Rigger
1% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Owner
0% Sadist
0% Master/Mistress
0% Boy/Girl
0% Switch
0% Dominant
0% Degrader
0% Brat tamer
0% Primal (Hunter)