Where to start? i am an alpha personality who craves to submit to the right Dom for me. I am not looking to jump into a relationship. I wish to take time and get to know someone and have them really get to know me not just what they would get from surface level conversations. I am an attorney and for that reason I cannot post my photo here but I am willing to share once we start talking. I have been a part of the lifestyle in some sense for the past 26 years. I started off learning online and then progressed into real life relationships. I have been involved with a handful of Doms and have been collared twice. I am happy to speak online but eventually would like to work into something rl. Whether that is 24/7 or long distance with multiple visits throughout the year is up for discussion. I will be honest and say I don’t like to share. Monogamy is important to me. As far as looks and personality, I am a curvy, full figured lady, so if you are looking for tall and skinny/slim/willowy, I’m not the woman for you. I can be headstrong at times. I am also submissive and look forward to shedding the stress of my job by giving myself over to the right Dom. That said I’m hoping to be a partner first and submissive second. In my free time, i love to cook, I sing semi-professionally, I play piano (poorly). I enjoy most types of music, concerts, the theater, fine dining and a nice bottle of wine. O always have a book or three that I’m reading and possibly a crochet project or two. I was raised in a way that I can walk into just about any situation, in any strata of society and feel comfortable If you are familiar with the Meyers Briggs, I am an ISFP. I come with my share of baggage but am not an alcoholic or addict, recovering or otherwise. I do drink socially but hate the feeling of being drunk. my perfect relationship is one in which I feel loved and cared for, sexy, wanted, and needed. Where I can provide pleasure but my desire and need for pleasure is also taken into account. Where I am respected for my intelligence and achievements and cherished for my submission. I also like having my hand held in public, doors opened for me, chairs held, etc At times I crave the infliction of pain. I find it helps me get out of my own head and just let go. Trust and communication are imperative to me. If I find out you’ve lied to me or you decide to be passive aggressive and give me the silent treatment the relationship will end. I don’t mind rules and structure as long as those rules make sense to me. I’m sure there is much much more. Please feel free to ask.
I find a sense of calm in my submission. I have been in the lifestyle for 26 years and have had both online and rl relationships. When I am with a Dom who truly cares about me there is a sense of joy and belonging.
Blood, scat, golden showers, anything illegal, extreme bondage
I’ve finally realized that I don’t have to settle and that I am deserving.