MatthewYnotjustMatt

switch male

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Single

This was hard to start! So what about me? I'm kind of a introvert, but I decided recently that I was going to overcome this and build my confidence. Then this virus isolation shit hit and I'm back to seeing no one again :)

So I thought a Chat room, perfect! Then I started think about what I actually want from a relationship and what my actual fantasies are... So... Here I am

I'm a big nerd, I love books, comics/manga, and computer games. Also, I love working in my garden, at least when its warm!

Favourite current author: Meghan O'Brien (Mhmm)
Favourite authors of all time:
Phoenix Baker (Wow!)
Kim Harrison (Her Hollows novels: Witches, Vampires and demons, oh my! With some scintillating sex scenes :)
Terry Pratchett (I still get teary eyed now when I read one of his books and remember there won't be anymore)
David Webber (Kick a*s sci fi)
Sophie Morgan (Absolutely recommended for anyone with a hint of kink)

So I think I might have gone a little overboard with all that but now I don't wanna delete it.

So, the real me... I don't really know at the moment. Hopefully I'll think of something a bit more appropriate at a later date.

I've had some experience with past partners where Vanilla has turned a little "Chocolatey" on both sides of the Sub/Dom coin that were absolutely amazing (mostly unintended :) but apart from that its just a fantasy for me at the moment. As such, I can't really class myself as a Top or bottom until I get some real world experience.

Its just on any given day I swing from one to the other, stopping off at Vanilla along the way :)

I would definitely class myself as a sub but I do get that surge of excitement from domination as well. Its just, thinking of me tied up does thrill me but aesthetically I always fantasise about a women restrained and a woman dominating... so maybe some gender issues to work through as well :D

I remember a particular time I was working in central London and being captivated by the office workers as they came out for lunch. Some like sheep and a few like Wolves and going from wanting to capture and ravage the Lambs to a desire for being captured and ravaged by a particular Wolf which was an amazing feeling even if it was a true whipsaw of emotion.

Would like to try:

From both a sub and Dom perspectives:
Bondage/restraint
Primal prey
Impact play
Sensual play
Tickling
Breath play
Biting/hair pulling

From a Dom's perspective:
* denial
Forced *
Rope play

From a sub's perspective:
Queening/worshipping..

Again not really sure. Unfortunately, no Anal play as my rectum had to be removed (Should have had my username as The Man with No Bum) due to medical issues relating to Crohns (Sorry if this is a bit too much information but raising awareness of Crohn's is a bit of a mission of mine :D).

Should go with out saying but no children, consent must be agreed and no scars without extensive discussion cos I got enough of those :P

Oh wow, if you'r into kink go read Julia P. Lynde's Rewind

And I finally got my rope, now all I have to do is learn how to tie knots :P Not that I haven't got loads of time to learn it at the moment with this isolation crap!

More Erotic BDSM novels in the form of Anna Stones' Irresistibly Bound series. Wow! So hot :)

More Yuri manga in the form of Bloom Into You, I really think there gonna take my man card away if I keep reading these sappy love stories :D

Heavily into Yuri manga at the moment, bought the entire set of Citrus which is pretty damn good. STILL waiting for my piece of rope from Amazon :(

Listening to Robyn Adele Anderson on YouTube. Wow! "Paint it Black" is amazing :D

Reading Patricia Briggs newest book in the Mercy series, Smoke Bitten. More Werewolf's, Vampires and Demons to chase Mercy down.

DAMM AMAZON!! 3 weeks to deliver some rope! F!%(*ing ****

I'm reading the Sunstone BDSM comics to keep myself entertained though (Stunningly beautiful artwork and some gorgeous outfits; definitely recommended for any BDSM romance novels out there)

12 weeks self Isolation! Hurry up with that rope Amazon!!

Still waiting for the rope :P

Bought my first bit of rope to try out on Self-bondage. £5 well spent? Hopefully :)

Dec 20, 2020

Apr 1, 2020