warriorqueen

sub female

43

Single

***updated*** Dec. 2022

This is an update:

While I've been in the lifestyle for over 4 years I have not found a dynamic so far.  I'm a switch that currently chooses to focus on my submissive side, I'm honestly just tired of always being in charge.  While I am looking for a Dom I want to be clear that my submission is not the kind where I live and breathe only about making him happy. I believe that both parties are important, my needs and wants are just as important.  

Willing to relocate for the right dynamic. 

I am going to start this out by saying I am serious about finding a LTR with a Dom, if you can't be yourself when messaging me please pass my profile up.  Not here to hook up, play online or do any sexing.  I have to connect with people both mentally and emontionally which takes time to actually get to know somone.  Until I get to know someone I am not even talking kinks, not here to get your kicks off of.

I am not one to ask questions like your filling out a questionnaire, I find the answers to not be genuine, everyone has the basic questions/answers premade responses. I prefer to just chat and get to know people, you get more genuine answers as well as a better understanding of someone. That does not mean you can’t ask them but it’s my style of getting to know someone.

I tend to give a lot more than I get back from people. This is not something I want to keep repeating, I want the strong emotional connections that you get from a D/s relationship. I need openness and honesty. I am far from perfect but will give you everything I can. 

 I'm a very caring person, I love kids, am easy going, however, some consider me to have a strong personality (it has been a necessity for a long time). I've been told I am very direct, sometimes that comes across wrong. Honesty is very important to me, I am very understanding and have a unique outlook on things. Everyone has some form of drama even if it's from someone else, as long as your upfront about these things it shouldn't matter. There are many shades of gray nothing is black and white I understand everyone has a past, who you are today matters, not the mistakes you have made yesterday. If you can't be the same person in six months as you are today then don't contact me.

I have been in the lifestyle for a couple of years, I spent the first 1.5 years learning, going to meetings, talking to people, classes etc. I have had on long term play partner, I am not in a hurry to try everything out there so my pace while slower is rewarding. I do not play with anyone else outside of a relationship, whether it be someone I have a close friendship or a D/s relationship.

Ask when and if we get to that point.

Dec 27, 2022

Apr 7, 2020