In a monogamous relationship
*NOT LOOKING*
I’m a pretty shy (at first), introverted, 55 yr old African-American woman, looking for a Daddy Dom.
I identify more as a middle than a little, but I still like a paci & a stuffy sometimes, especially when I’m upset (I actually make my own stuffy’s).
I’m a big girl - I’m 5’11”, have 38DD boobs and have ample hips, thighs & ass. Most men refer to me as “thikk” (yes, with the unconventional “kk” spelling LOL), and I’m all natural - I don’t wear a lot of makeup, no fake nails, no hair extensions, no plastic surgery, etc. What you’ll see, is what you’ll get.
Because I am so shy, I need to take things slowly (once again for the people in the back . . . SLOWLY). I'm not a "hook-up" kind of girl. You have to get to know me before you get to KNOW me (wink). But if you take the time, it could be something special for the both of us.
I'm looking for an alpha male who’s very protective, wants to possess me and look after my mental, physical and emotional well-being. He should be a caring, patient, affectionate, loving, sweet guy who isn't above punishing me when I'm naughty, but also likes to give rewards for good behavior (wink, wink). He should have a gentle side that enraptures me, and a dominant side that commands me.
I can be a bit silly sometimes, so I need somebody who can appreciate my spontaneous happy-dances and not try to stifle my goofy/silly nature.
I AM an only child, so I’m sure I could use an OTK spanking or six (after all, I AM spoiled. Not a brat though. . . Usually). I’m interested in orgasm control and forced orgasms (good luck with this one LOL), controlled light choking, cock warming and anal training.
Additionally, I’m currently trying to induce lactation - I think milky tits are sexy. I would love for my Daddy to pull up to my milk bar after a long day at work, and let all of His worries melt away as He relaxes into me and drinks.
PLUS, my boobs are a gateway to the rest of my body. There’s just something about a nice, warm mouth on my nipples that gets the rest of my body ready to play!
I’d love to eventually be so connected to my Daddy that he can communicate with me silently from across a room with just a look or subtle hand gesture (ummm, yes please), and so connected to him that just the sound of his voice makes everything else fall away like it’s just the two of us on the planet.
Lastly, I'd love to give up all control of my body to my Daddy, for him to use as he pleases.
If you're the right Daddy for me, I'll happily be the perfect slut for you.
Trust and loyalty are VERY important to me.
I have a real need to be emotionally CONNECTED to my Daddy. This is a direct result of me having trust issues with most of my previous relationships.
I feel like a D/s relationship is next-level as far as a sense of security, connection and trust. I want to trust my Daddy 1000%, and (assuming he’s not a total selfish dick) he’ll view my trust, devotion and willingness to turn over control as something that’s worth protecting, and not worth jeopardizing.
I want a 1-sub Daddy.
If you’re interested in having more than 1 sub, I’m not your girl.
If you're looking to share me, I'm not your girl.
If all you want to talk about is sex, I'm not your girl.
If you just want to hook-up, I’m not your girl.
If you just want to experience a black girl. . . I’m really not your girl.
Please don’t refer to my skin color as chocolate, mocha, coffee, etc. I am not a food or drink, I am a person. Besides, it’s tired and rude.
Sending me a dick-pick before you know anything about me (outside of what’s in my profile), will not impress me. It’ll ONLY motivate me to block you. I’m not interested in a D/s relationship only for the sex, I can get sex anywhere. It’s the connection, and my deepest desire to serve and please someone who’s very essence is imprinted on my soul.
I’m looking for a MONOGAMOUS relationship with my Daddy, and I don’t like to share. As stated before, I’m an only child and I like the focus to be on ME. If you cannot just focus on me, please don’t bother.
I may have a romanticized view of what a D/s relationship is, but I think with some patience, I’ll find EXACTLY what I’m looking for.
Well, I guess I’m not new anymore!
I’ve only had an online D/s (3.5-ish years), but I think it was a really good introduction to the lifestyle. Now I’m ready for something a bit more in-person.
Anything illegal, no children, no blood, no needles, humiliation, sharing, no drugs, no bathroom stuff, no race play