30 yrs in the lifestyle. Introduced as a teenager and I was never the same. I'm intense and VERY much drawn to the mental aspects of this lifestyle and while I am a sexually charged FemDom, I'm one of the very few that are actually in it for anything *but* the sex. (I can get that anywhere) I'm heavily into protocol, service slaves, masochists (mental and physical), boot/foot worship, domestic servitude, personal pampering, forced feminization and bisexuality. While all the aforementioned need not be your cup o' tea, it'd be pretty great if most of it was and that you're open to the rest. If only to please.