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Why subs with trauma feel scared trusting

Sun Aug 23, 2026 9:14 am • 12 Replies • 1897 Views

Author

shortylotus

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Why subs with trauma feel scared trusting

I don't know what to do and need a bit of advice

Sometimes the hardest thing to do is admit that your gut is trying to tell you something you don't want to hear.

In a BDSM relationship, it's easy to explain away red flags because you want to trus ...

Sun Aug 23, 2026 9:07 am • 31 Replies • 3084 Views

Author

shortylotus

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

I don't know what to do and need a bit of advice

Forced-bi

Hmmmm...control...humiliation....it's better than watching a rerun of ncis...you do have a right to say no to any activity that makes you uncomfortable...they are only allowed to do what you will let ...

Tue Dec 10, 2024 4:30 pm • 17 Replies • 10564 Views

Author

shortylotus

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Forced-bi

What is “the norm”?

Tue Dec 10, 2024 4:22 pm • 30 Replies • 8174 Views

Author

shortylotus

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

What is “the norm”?

Butt Plugs and Anal Play

Taking them out can be nightmare...I got so nervous I couldn't get it out...when I did it flew out of my hand and put a little dent in the wall...

Tue Dec 10, 2024 8:37 am • 21 Replies • 10037 Views

Author

shortylotus

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Butt Plugs and Anal Play

Getting responses to messages

Tue Dec 10, 2024 8:34 am • 30 Replies • 17559 Views

Author

shortylotus

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Getting responses to messages

Jeeze

Tue Dec 10, 2024 8:29 am • 36 Replies • 8879 Views

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shortylotus

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Jeeze

Feel free to tell me to fuck off

Tue Dec 10, 2024 8:19 am • 25 Replies • 5452 Views

Author

shortylotus

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

Feel free to tell me to fuck off

Proof?!

Your a submissive...but not there submissive..meaning you do not have to prove yourself or let them dominant you.. however be respectful while telling them that ...even if they are a little dickwad. ...

Tue Dec 10, 2024 8:16 am • 60 Replies • 14680 Views

Author

shortylotus

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Proof?!

Tips on setting personal boundaries?

Sun Dec 08, 2024 10:11 pm • 14 Replies • 3717 Views

Author

shortylotus

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Tips on setting personal boundaries?