I think I match up pretty well with most women on the outside the bedroom things but behind closed doors I always felt there was something missing. I have been with someone before for several years trying out some bondage, pain for her and the slave/master(or dom) relationship. I really enjoyed it. Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed the times where those weren't in the picture, but I always knew there was a desire in me to be with a sub. I like the role playing aspect of it and what I have found is what turns me on about that aspect is the idea that SHE want's to explore and is willing to push the boundaries. I don't get off as much on the actual act (I still enjoy it though), but rather more the idea and thought that she is getting off on submitting and taking direction, and being dominated. I don't know how else to explain it since I'm not really immersed in this lifestyle. I honestly don't know the lingo, but know that I want to be alpha and take charge behind closed doors.
I'm open to someone new to it where we can explore together and also someone with experience and has an interest exploring more or being pushed. I feel I can go 0-100 (This isn't time frame but kinkiness) pretty quickly. Not sure anything will offend/shock me. I tend to pace myself to her pace. Isn't that the art of dominance? The understanding that the sub, in reality, has the power and can choose to walk away therefore you still have to treat her how SHE want's to be treated. Imposing your will when she doesn't trust you or does not allow it, it only ends in an ugly messy breakup. The relationship bust be in a place where you are very convincingly the dom and are able just to push the boundaries further and further as time passes and as she allows. That's my perspective anyways.
Well, I hope that paints a picture of who I am and what I'm looking for. There is a lot more interesting facts about me, even some funny, but for another time I guess. Let's give it a shot and see where it goes.
I was introduced to this lifestyle by accident. I real enjoyed and have been doing it every since.
I am a strong dom that also enjoys sports video games etc.
I also enjoy reading amd writing. If you are here to share stories i am also interested in those, because i write eritic stories myself
Feel free to tell me about you, tell me about your kimks, turn ons amd offs
If you are interested in erotica stories of ALL kind let me know
The usual. More limits to be discussed at the appropriate time.