FedoraAndABowtie

dom male

Single

I'm not a social butterfly, and meeting new people is not one of my strong points. I'm a fun loving person, living life to the best I can. I enjoy talking and goofing around with my friends, though I do not connect easily with others due to my unique way of thinking. I haven't learned how to explain it clearly yet, so you'll have to read my blogs to understand more if that's what you are looking for.

I started my journey of discovery several years ago and have been constantly learning about myself and working to be the person I wish to be. I've explored relationships with a dynamic, yet I kept finding my interests and views not matching up in a way I could be flexible enough to be content with. I'm very particular about certain aspects of my life.

I've made plenty of mistakes, some where harder to admit and accept than others, but they were all valuable experiences on my path of learning and growth. I'm sure I'll make plenty more, but they will at least be new ones, and I can learn from them as well.

I find myself poly-curious. But, without experience, it is mostly hypothetical.

Outside of kink, I am a father of a beautiful 2 yr old girl, and she is and will always be a major aspect of my life. I spend most of my free time reading or playing games, mostly on my computer. I aspire to life a well off life, with a very nice house, a good car, and a good family. I have ideas on opening my own business, and making my own video games. I enjoy the beautiful sights nature gives us, though I detest all manner of pests that would like to sneakily eat me. I am 6'2", white, small beard and a nifty mustache. Blue eyes, and a little bit of extra padding I am slowly working away. I seek to enjoy my time, and put in heavy effort to make it so.

I am looking. Be open, be clear, and be honest. There will be plenty of time discussing my expectations, your expectations, as well as limits, favorites, and common interests both kinky or otherwise. If you do wish to begin the journey of being mine, I am relatively new and have plenty of areas I can learn much in.

I don't deal with negative people, if you're messaging me to cause problems I will just delete your message. I'm not going to waste my time lowering myself to your level.

There is so much more to me than I have here, I will continue and focus on specific topics in my future blog posts. You are encouraged to ask me any questions you may have, and I will do my best to answer them, or learn from them if you provide new perspective or knowledge.

I like to experiment, if I find something that piques my curiosity, I want to try it out. New things should be fun and exciting, but most importantly, consensual. Researching them properly to do them safely (as possible) is also important.

I'm looking for a relationship founded on honesty, communication, and willingness. It should never feel like being in a relationship is forced.

I don't enjoy repeating myself. I enjoy nurturing and watching you grow and succeed. I've been told I possess endless patience, and I treat those close to me with the immense depth of the care I have towards them.

As a person who has considered poly before, I do understand that loving one partner doesn't mean loving another partner can't be done. It does require consent and awareness, as well as honesty.
Safety always comes above everything else.

I'm not an inconsiderate jerk, and if you're looking for someone to disregard you while bossing you around without even knowing you, there are plenty of instadoms here, and most of them would be more than happy to do that for you. If you have expectations, be clear and up front about them. If you come looking for friendship, say so. If you come looking to explore a possible relationship, say so. If you just want to have a kinky online chat session then never speak again, say so.

I've experienced a lot of ghosting.. please, if you're no longer interested in talking to me, just say something. If we get friendly enough to start talking somewhat regularly, if you suddenly up and disappear I will worry you're not okay.
 
Don't be afraid to be yourself. If you're not acting like you would naturally, then I haven't really met you yet.

Scat. I find it gross.
Amputation. Apparently, it's a thing. Not a thing I have even the remotest of interest in.
Children. If you're not 18 yet, you shouldn't even be on this site. Please wait until you are at least 18.
People who don't bother to read my profile. If you're not willing to put in a few moments of your time to read my profile, how the hell can I expect you to put in the lifetime of effort of a significant relationship?
Soft Limits
I'm not all that interested in anal activities.

I've been doing a lot of retrospection, finding myself, who I am, what I want to be, how I want to live my life. It's a constant journey through life, but the reward is an increase in general happiness, a better understanding of myself, and a bright outlook on the future.

I'm not one for drama.. If you're here to have a hysterical, screaming, wailing, fighting and constantly unhappy relationship.. move along.


Profile is a work in progress, been busy with work recently.

Nov 24, 2022

Jun 17, 2020