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ThatsSirToudom male
Virginia, United States
ThatsSirTou
Age
57
Relationship status
Single
About me
Exceptional Dom in Virginia. 6'2, Blue eyes. College educated. I work on the laptop daily and look forward to anytime I can interact in the BDSM world. I am non judgmental or try to be and enjoy good conversation and laughs. I do enjoy wine and/or beer, and a very good blanco tequila without going overboard. I love music.
BDSM and me
Established, grounded, loyal, and at a stage in life where I value peace over chaos and consistency over mixed signals.
I’m a Dominant interested in D/s as an authentic relationship dynamic and lifestyle built on trust, affection, communication, and mutual respect. Leadership, to me, means creating safety, structure, accountability, and stability — not unnecessary control.
I’m drawn to feminine, intelligent, emotionally mature women who enjoy connection, humor, flirting, dressing well when the occasion fits, and who have built some stability in their own lives. I appreciate women with class and confidence who are still approachable, kind to others, and comfortable laughing at themselves.
I value direct communication, loyalty, emotional steadiness, curiosity, and women who can discuss difficult topics without turning every disagreement into conflict.
I offer affection, consistency, structure without rigidity, adventure within negotiated boundaries, and someone who believes trust is earned over time.
Not interested in games, chronic confusion, or relationships built on mixed messages. Interested in warmth, honesty, chemistry, and building something with depth.
If you’re submissive by nature rather than performance, emotionally aware, feminine, and interested in connection that feels secure rather than chaotic, say hello.
Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Brat tamer 100% Voyeur 100% Rigger 97% Sadist 97% Primal (Hunter) 93% Master/Mistress 89% Dominant 89% Experimentalist 71% Non-monogamist 56% Degrader 43% Daddy/Mommy 41% Owner
I’m a Dominant interested in D/s as an authentic relationship dynamic and lifestyle built on trust, affection, communication, and mutual respect. Leadership, to me, means creating safety, structure, accountability, and stability — not unnecessary control.
I’m drawn to feminine, intelligent, emotionally mature women who enjoy connection, humor, flirting, dressing well when the occasion fits, and who have built some stability in their own lives. I appreciate women with class and confidence who are still approachable, kind to others, and comfortable laughing at themselves.
I value direct communication, loyalty, emotional steadiness, curiosity, and women who can discuss difficult topics without turning every disagreement into conflict.
I offer affection, consistency, structure without rigidity, adventure within negotiated boundaries, and someone who believes trust is earned over time.
Not interested in games, chronic confusion, or relationships built on mixed messages. Interested in warmth, honesty, chemistry, and building something with depth.
If you’re submissive by nature rather than performance, emotionally aware, feminine, and interested in connection that feels secure rather than chaotic, say hello.
Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Brat tamer 100% Voyeur 100% Rigger 97% Sadist 97% Primal (Hunter) 93% Master/Mistress 89% Dominant 89% Experimentalist 71% Non-monogamist 56% Degrader 43% Daddy/Mommy 41% Owner
Limits
No blood, watersports or bathroom activities. A safe word is always a must.
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Living life as an exceptional, real Dom
Member since
Jul 19, 2020