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getting back into the lifestyle

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1 year ago. November 22, 2022 at 6:33 AM

I am a Tow Boater, which means I live on a boat for 28 days and home 14 days, with this being said the sexual tension and frustration my wife and I have are out of this world. we try and have as much sex as we can in the 14 days that I am home but with us having a 19-month-old it is hard to sometimes make the time to make love to each other, this sometimes causes us to have little fights here, and there but nothing major. I am writing this to ask what are some ways throughout the day that we can show each other some sexual att. I will send her flirty text and pics but I also want to throw in some kink play during the day but not sure what, we do all this talking of kink play while I am on the boat but when I get home the talk goes out the window and as does the play, how do I get it to where the play is there when I get home, she has told me many times to just take her and have my way with her but I don't want to scare her for me being the very dominate person I am. we have been together for 5 years and married for 3 years and she hasn't seen me complete DOM due to me not wanting to freak her out. I want to go full-blown DOM and show her that side of me but how do I trust that she won't leave? feedback is wanted so plz leave a comment with your thoughts. 

 

 

 

 

 

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1 year ago. November 17, 2022 at 5:46 AM

I have been into the lifestyle for going on 15 years and was in it heavy with every relationship I have been in. my current wife is into it as well and my biggest fear is that I am going to go to hard or get deep into a session and hurt her how do I get over this fear. she tells me that is why we have a safe word but still afraid I am going to go to deep into a session and hurt her