I know I'm partly to blame. Many men have a very porn riddled version of life with a domme because that is the part of my life that I display on a site like this. Who wants to know about managing my aging mother or who I vote for in political elections? Yawn!.......................... I'm a real person and any serious romantic relationship I have needs to be a love relationship. It will be 24/7 FLR, but that doesn't mean I'm always in leather and he's always on his knees......... I have an active vanilla social life. I am interested in social reform. I work 50 to 60 hours a week. I play tennis every day. I ride horses. I love being on the water. A boyfriend and I will often act and look like a lot of couples. We are real people. ....................In a real relationship, first comes mutual attraction and getting to know each other. There must be a right fit across political, religious, and cultural values. Domme women are real people not just kink dispensers. Some of you dream of being used like this and I admit that it's an important part of the way I live my life. However, that kind of relationship isn't fun or intimate enough for me. I don't want to always feel that I am unobtainable and distant to him. I want to draw him ever closer to me. It's why I would love to send a boyfriend to school to learn to manicure my nails. He could curl and comb my hair. He could bathe me. He could dress and undress me most days that I'm home. We would go to long lunches where we hold hands and talk for hours. We can go to the movies and theatre together (after pandemic, sigh!). We can work out together. We can share vanilla friends. We can go on vacation trips together................... Yes I want to own a servant, but it will be even sweeter when he is my love interest!
4 years ago. August 26, 2020 at 3:37 PM