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A place for me to share the inner workings of my twisted mind and plans to rule the world.
3 years ago. August 26, 2020 at 3:37 PM

I know I'm partly to blame. Many men have a very porn riddled version of life with a domme because that is the part of my life that I display on a site like this. Who wants to know about managing my aging mother or who I vote for in political elections? Yawn!.......................... I'm a real person and any serious romantic relationship I have needs to be a love relationship. It will be 24/7 FLR, but that doesn't mean I'm always in leather and he's always on his knees......... I have an active vanilla social life. I am interested in social reform. I work 50 to 60 hours a week. I play tennis every day. I ride horses. I love being on the water. A boyfriend and I will often act and look like a lot of couples. We are real people. ....................In a real relationship, first comes mutual attraction and getting to know each other. There must be a right fit across political, religious, and cultural values. Domme women are real people not just kink dispensers. Some of you dream of being used like this and I admit that it's an important part of the way I live my life. However, that kind of relationship isn't fun or intimate enough for me. I don't want to always feel that I am unobtainable and distant to him. I want to draw him ever closer to me. It's why I would love to send a boyfriend to school to learn to manicure my nails. He could curl and comb my hair. He could bathe me. He could dress and undress me most days that I'm home. We would go to long lunches where we hold hands and talk for hours. We can go to the movies and theatre together (after pandemic, sigh!). We can work out together. We can share vanilla friends. We can go on vacation trips together................... Yes I want to own a servant, but it will be even sweeter when he is my love interest!

FunCouple{.-Couple-.} -
Good Evening
I believe you might find the TV series, titled ‘Billionaire’ and found on Amazon Prime I believe, interesting.
3 years ago
MissMelisandre​(dom female) - Thank you, yes I have seen it. I like the character I am sure you are referring to, but I don't really identify too much with her. She seems to be more topped from the bottom that a true Domme and the relationship with her husband was definitely not flr.
3 years ago
Johnny slave sub​(sub male){I'd most w} - Personally, I not only believe in the righteousness of a woman's place above men, but have lived nearly every year of life thus far...in what I know to be truly Female Led. Your heading...of being a real woman as well as a Goddess, pinpoints the reality of a Female Led Relationship that many so called submissive men either don't get, don't agree with or don't care to acknowledge. Some men say they desire or want a solid relationship with a take charge woman, cause all they see are porn aspects. They are selfish with self centered interests...perhaps leaning more towards sex. That is wrong in so many ways. The life and relationship between a Goddess and her male, is as real, as loving, as caring, as wonderfully beautiful, as any real and lasting vanilla, mainstream relationship. A man can know the reality that women are Superior to men...but to know that...he needs to first recognize that she IS first and foremost a WOMAN. If he is blessed to share life with her, he must have real need to know her fully. Yes, you're a Goddess and he should see you as such...You are in charge, the primary or complete decision maker, the one he should want to love, adore, obey, serve, deeply respect and look up to as his owner. Yet, being Goddess does not define the complete woman you are. You have and he should too...a wide range of the usual vanilla interests. Dinner out, quiet romantic walk along a beach, take in a good movie, play a board game at home, share in making a meal together, or he could make the meal while you relax after a long day. A good foot massage would help in that situation. Yes...through your training, you are able to mold his behaviour, to make him into a much better cherished servant and adoring man and yes, he needs to follow your lead, your rules, your decisions, without question, yet with a willingness to give advice, opinions and/or suggestions when asked of him to do so. He must know that as a Goddess and Woman as well, you are strong, yet also have times of doubt, pain, tears, weakness and even loneliness. He should not fear to approach you and yet at the same time...he should do so humbly, with great respect for the higher status you'd always have in daily life. No one in life is perfect, but in belonging to you, your man should want and learn to treat you, as though you were. The man who sees all that you are...can more fully and truly not only kneel or lay at your feet, but embrace you in his arms, softly kiss your lips, walk side by side with your hand in his.
Such a man would want to know about you managing your aging Mother, about your political views and who you'd want to vote for, your favourite foods, movies, interests, colors, etc etc.
Why worship only part of all that you are? By his wanting to know not only all that you are as Goddess, but all that makes you the uniquely individual woman you are...He is blessed to be led and know he is beneath the real authority of a true, loving, yet firmly in charge total Woman. Total Goddess.
These are merely my views and in no way, do I presuppose my opinions greater than your opinions, grounded within Feminine Wisdom.
3 years ago
Johnny slave sub​(sub male){I'd most w} - Oh yes...by the way...women should rule the world.
Indeed....this world would be in better shape if a woman ruled it. Women should be in charge over all and men should hold a lowly status of subservience, be it in business, the arts, politics, economics, world governments etc.
3 years ago
emeX​(sub male) - Sort of a fun fact of life....You get out, what you put in.

You set the standard for how people see you and how they treat you. If you project a fantastic persona riddled with kink and fantasy, don't be surprised if you succeed in attracting men with a "porn riddled version of life".

If you want to hit the target, you must aim above it.

Thank You.
3 years ago
nickthesub​(sub male) - True FLR goal!
2 years ago

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