Going to events is always an exciting thing to do. Even going on vacation is fun and exciting and can be an adventure that is full of surprises and memories in which you will cherish forever. It is time in which you get to go, have fun and enjoy yourself away from the normal world. To let loose and be who you normally are without the judgment of others. You are in a place where no one really knows you and therefore you are able to be who you want to be and therefore can truly be happy which of course is a wonderful and great feeling to have flowing through your entire body. It brings on a euphoric high point. Unfortunately, all good things must come to an end. As the saying goes what goes up, must come down. Now in most instances while this is a sad event it passes okay because there is support and you learn to cope in a day or three, there are some who suffer for many weeks afterwards simply due to the fact that their vacation from reality, was more a break from their time in hell. They ran from their prison and abusive captors for a time and enjoyed it so very much, upon return instead of getting the loving help and care needed to transition from vacation/event needed, all they get is abuse, insults, attacks and grief 24/7 for everything from body size to the way they look.
It show the true strength of a Dominant to be able to pull your sub's head up and give their wings wind to fly when they have severe depression when they live in another country and all you have to communicate with is a laptop, a phone and can use only text chat and video chat. To stay up late, get up early and spend nearly all day every day boosting their spirits, re-enforcing how awesome they are, how strong they really are and how much they really do mean to the world. To pull them out of the depression they are trapped in and push them in the right positive direction that is going to bring them into a better more safe direction in the long term, without being sucked into depression yourself. That strength can be extremely exhausting on a person no matter who you are. To show one person that kind of dedication and time, compassion and heart, shows you really do care, that you won't give up on them and that they are most definitely worth every ounce of effort and time you have ever invested in them.
Help others and be kind. Check in with them. Show another your kindness. You have no idea what they are going through, what they have been through or might in the future. No one knows what the future holds. Be kind everyday to everyone you meet no matter how mean others are to you. Shake the hand of a stranger and say thank you. You have no idea what kind of positive impact you might make on their world by doing it. You might just end up saving their life. Showing compassion, caring and heart to others is free, so why not spread more compassion around rather than hate, upset and "it's all about me" mentality? help teach the worlds children a new way, the way that says treat others how you want to be treated, with love and kindness and help change the world for the better.
-Chester-
