Every day is new, something to teach and help others work on and see. As a dominant Alpha puppy working with a pack there is not a whole lot of time to get rest when you have 5 active pups during the day to constantly monitor plus vanilla life which brings the total of things you have to keep track of to a round dozen. It is always good to stay busy of course, but with a dozen things to keep track of all at the same time things get hectic rapidly! One thing gets out of balance and its like a Jenga! game that someone pulled the wrong block.
However chaos often serves a purpose as well. One we often forget, that while it can cause disruptions and stress, it can also teach us valuable life lessons. Ones that maybe we knew before and forgot, or refused to see until they were presented in a way we could no longer ignore. Life lessons are not meant to be easy, they are never fun and exciting but hard and usually difficult either mentally or emotionally. But the reason they are is because if they were easy they would be easily forgotten. The harder a task is, the longer it stays and harder it is to forget.
I have always said the best way to figure out how to meet your match is to first know about yourself. Not "think you know" as in I like this not this, or what your favorite foods are, but stop, find a quiet place for yourself, and I challenge you this. When was the last time you spent time alone with yourself? Sat down, closed your eyes and looked deeply inside at yourself. Gotten to know and understand yourself better on a deeper more personal level? Do you even have the courage to do so? To look further into the deepest corners, the darkest places and find what is lurking, what might be there? Face what is hidden inside and find out more about yourself? You may be surprised that once you do this and really get to know yourself for who you really are, that there is this absolutely wonderful person with great fantastic times inside. Remember things you once forgotten long ago that bring simple pleasure to your life.
People are filled with great wisdom and pure joy and happiness as well as large amounts of knowledge but doubt themselves and lock away what they know. They let society tell them who they should be and why, how they should act, what they need to do when it just causes them to stress. My point is that after a long conversation that was extremely meaningful to me, I was able to restructure the way I was doing things within my puppy pack structure that has changed the way our dynamics are working. It is changing everything for the better.
While improving some lives it can cause slight breakdowns, repairing can actually strengthen the bonds and help build the lives back up to make things 10 times better through the wisdom you will gain picking yourself back up. When you have the right people around you helping give that support and love then anything can be achievable. You cannot choose your biological family, however you can choose a new family through the people you choose to be around. As in a pack, super close friends you choose to call family or pets.
---Pup Kit---
