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Just my random thoughts as I try to learn and grow
6 years ago. March 10, 2018 at 10:52 PM

So last night I popped my Munch and Play Party bubble in one fowl swoop. I attended an all female munch at a Master's private dungeon which he hires out and has his own private parties in weekly.
The event was an hours drive away but I chose this one because it felt right. It was all females, private, had demos and the timing suited me. So i had no excuse. I started this year with the intention of experiencing and learning as much as i could. To not hide behind my computer screen and actually get a chance to feel and submit in person.

The event was organized by a Domme who was friends with the Master and she set a dress code standard of best kink wear, lingerie or nude. So I worked out my outfit of a corset, short skirt and stay up stockings.
I should have been nervous but as I did my make up and my hair i was just excited. My nerves didn't kick in until I pulled into the car park in an industrial estate and spotted a lady in full leather entering the only lit up door in the area. I breathed a sigh of relief that I was actually in the right place lol. I was more worried about rocking up to the wrong place all dressed up.
I was greated with a warm smile by a lady in her 50's sitting at the front desk in a mans business shirt fully unbuttoned to show her breasts, short leather skirt and fishnets. My hand was shakey as i paid for my entry. Another lady dressed in red bra and panties with a fishnet dress on (who i learned later was the slave of the Mistress holding the event) took me by the arm and gave me the tour of the dungeon.
It was set elegantly in an industrial building with the Masters quarters upstairs. There was a medical play area, high impact area, wax play area, lounge area for chatting, four poster bed, outdoor smoking area and a kitchen/bar. It was low lit and intimate and it completely relaxed me when I walked in. The glass of champaign they gave me helped as well.
The ladies were all lovely and there was quiet a few of us novices there. The Domme of Honor (who did the demo) gave a talk on safety and consent with a Q&A session at the end). It was not a formal event it was relaxed were we could all converse freely and ask questions.
Then the needle play demo began. Needle play is not my thing but I was interested to watch. It was great to see the attention she was giving the submissive as she places large peacock feathers to her behind. The end product was a beautiful tailed ass that when she laughed or flexed her butt the feathers fluttered.
Once she was taken care of the more experienced ladies stripped of the little clothing they wore and started to play. I observed a lady in the stocks being whipped, and made to cum with a multitude of toys.
I also had the opportunity to experience my first flogging. The Domme that approached by myself and another sub that I had previously been talking with asked if we wanted to try. She was perfect for my first experience. She started gently with a leather soft paddle that also had a fluffy side. She then moved through 2 sets of velvet floggers and 1 heavier flogger for me to experience the difference. And surprise surprise I loved the heavier one across my shoulders. While fixed to the cross I felt i was completely relaxed and in tuned to her rythm. Stopping constantly to check on me, show me the next tool and feel it sensually on my skin. Finishing with a paddling with a harder round paddle. My back and butt nicely pink but only slightly warm. Giving me the perfect first experience.

After we had cups of tea and all huddled in the lounge area laughing and talking, some having after care and me personally finding my nice comfortable spot on the floor.
I'm so happy i went and chose this as my first experience. I felt so comfortable with the people and not pushed to try anything. The ladies had appreciation for all of us and it was lovely. And oh yes the Master did sneak in and say hello when he was supposed to be gone lol

KnottyBear​(other female) - YESSSSS!!!! So glad your first experience was so good. Proud of your bravery friend!!
6 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - thank you for sharing this, I haven't had the courage to attend an event you, I hope to one day you make it sound wonderful
6 years ago
alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - starr I'm so glad that u shared and had such a good time.
6 years ago
alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - starr I'm so glad that u shared and had such a good time.
6 years ago
Kal Foster​(dom male){felicia} - CONGRATS! You took the plunge! That sounds like the perfect venue to start with in terms of safety and welcome. Very happy for you!
6 years ago
Bunnie - Yay!!!! I’m glad it was such a great experience, sounds like it was an awesome space. Thank you for sharing ?
6 years ago
Starlight82​(other female) - It was perfect yes. And the Domme who gave me my flogging contacted me the next day to ensure i was ok and that emotionally i was still happy.
6 years ago
alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - that's great she did th aftercare also
6 years ago
SchrodingersDinosaur​(switch female) - That's exactly how it should go! I am so happy for you, Star. Good luck to you as you continue on your journey of self discovery. Mwah!
6 years ago
SouthernFire​(sub female) - Aww I am happy to read how your first visit went. I also wanted to say, the way you explained your experience with flogging sounds like a great way to be introduced to the flogger. It was reassuring to me as I haven't had that experience yet. Thank you for sharing.
6 years ago

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