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Silent Observations

Just my random thoughts as I try to learn and grow
6 years ago. December 28, 2018 at 11:31 AM

I learnt an important lesson last night. I am way to analytical. So much so i use it as a defense. It makes me emotional and i pull myself apart. I think i have done this my entire life. If something scares me i analyze it until i either justify not doing or partaking in something, or exhaust all possibilities and remove the simple fun aspect. In a lot of cases it has kept me safe. Ive always had a level head. But sometimes i wish i was a little more care free.


Im at a point now of a crossroads. I need to stop my usual approach and lead with my heart. Otherwise i will forever be stuck in this revolving pattern. It is exhausting always thinking.

 

There is only so much i can learn from questions, blogs, forums and my friends.

There is only so far that i will explore at an event.

Ive always learnt better from doing rather than reading.

And there is no going back to where i was. So..... i either sit still....... or move forward.

Trying to let go a little more each day so that i may be freed completely 

Sensual City Girl​{ForeverHIS} - Welcome to my world! I’m the one that will still beat a dead horse and try to get water from a stone. My brain overrides my heart, as you stated - kept me safe. But, then you miss out on opportunities and other things in life. And, it wasn’t until I met my Daddy. I took the risk and followed my heart for once in my life!!! It was NOT easy and I was SCARED out of my wits. It’s a process and with when you find the right Dom, what an AMAZING journey!! Goodness, It’s so liberating and freeing you feel like a whole different human being. Granted, I still analyze and overthink, but not to the magnitude i used to. Daddy has helped and taught me considerably to look at what’s important and what’s not and what requires my true attention. I have to remind myself “Let it go!”

One day at a time...and, you will get there. Hugs!!!
6 years ago

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