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Mental illnesses and the lifestyle

Mental health is super important if you do not have a sound healthy head then it can keep you from connecting on a level with your sub or Dom I will use myself in this as an example I have been battling with my illnesses for about 10 yeah now when I hit the rock bottom but in my life chaos is not my friend structure is key just like in every dynamic it is key to have organization with making sure all needs and rules are met even expressing emotions about ten years ago I was diagnosed with PTSD ADHD bipolar 2 and crazy anxiety just to be clear it's not fun being in my head day to day it's all about control controlling everything thoughts emotions even my actions control has been my best friend just as the lifestyle has been it has given me stability beyond words I am for the most part numb outside of a dynamic but when I enter a dynamic it helps those walls disappear and makes me a better person inside and out the more the person opens up the easier it is to trust them and trust is everything it's a strong foundation to build on even in my day to day I only keep the people in my life who I know I can 100% trust if you can not trust someone your better off alone . Just remember do not keep those around you who diminish the value of your self worth we as humans have a bad problem letting others control how we feel about our selves just remember you are beautiful anyone who is themselves carry beauty that can not be measured taking back that power is key to a better you I will end this with saying thank you for your time and stay humble to yourself ?
4 years ago. August 24, 2020 at 7:53 PM

Knife play is something I have always been into being someone who is obsessed with knives it fits so  well here is a little mind fuck tip for you all when you plan your next knife play session fill a glass with warm water but do not let you partner see you do it this works best with sensory deprivation  but fill the glass now pull out the blade let your partner hold it feel the sharpness now time for the fun with all his or her senses blocked touch is going to be on the high now dip the knife in the warm water and drag the dull end acrossed the skin it will make them think that it's real blood running down there body creating the true feel of getting cut without leaving the marks it's an incredible mind fuck on you partner when you take that hood or blindfold off and there is no blood works like a charm just remember when it comes to play like this be safe and be sane .

My Dear{Trust} - I've a thing for knives (throwing, collecting, carrying when needed)...it appeals to me; but your last line covered exactly what I had planned to say...and, it is something that requires next-level trust!
4 years ago
reaperx​(sadist male) - I can not agree with you more trust is key and it takes alot of it
4 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Omg! That is BRILLIANT! hehehe....

I love sensory deprivation so I can totally feel that happening!
4 years ago

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