Ice Girl's public thoughts.

Friday's festivities🦈

At BPH, my GF wanted me to pierce her ear. I had thought of this as cleaning, sterilizing, inserting a needle, putting in hypoallergenic jewelry that is safe to keep in for 4-6 weeks, and telling her how to care for it.

However, at the moment, she was like, "Hey, let's make it a scene. If I wanted it that way, we could have gone to a shop.😈"

So there was a lot more headspace play, forced masturbating, and toy play than I had previously anticipated for ear piercing.

She enjoyed it more than I could have expected. I went off her bratty vibes and didn't have any plan in place for taming her at first since this was a new play for us.

Afterwards, she needed a decent amount of aftercare because exploring this dynamic really excited her. In fact, after she could verbalize again, she made clear how she would love to push my buttons again to get me into that brat tamer intense dom behavior.

I am a service top, naturally so I don't know how readily I can summon such behavior, but it is worth consideration since seeing her so content was gratifying.

Then, afterwards, Wolf and I were going to play, and as we were talking, we ended up doing a needle scene with some intimate conversations and negotiating future plays while having deep emotional connections.

Two of my favorite people in the local community both had meaningful experiences with me recently. 😊

It was a good night, and it reminded me why being open to finding people can be rewarding. Had this been a few years ago, I wouldn't know either of them.

My advice: If you're interested in reaching out to someone, go for it before that opportunity is gone. You may just make a meaningful relationship.