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Ice Girl's public thoughts.

Me just sharing what comes to mind.
1 year ago. January 9, 2023 at 12:04 PM

Tonight I am nursing a hand I bruised pretty badly going to the gym. I was working out for over 4 hours and was doing leg lifts and dips in my rotation I feel those had to cause it.

 

Why I work out so hard?

I was abused as a child: physically, mentally, emotionally  as well as other ways. I never wanted to be weak or attacked. 

 

I know what it's like to feel anxiety. 

 

How with our current climate could trans men and women feel safe or valued? (note - I am not trans)

 

The rate of murder, suicide, homelessness, joblessness, discrimination. We live in a world that as a society is getting more sensitive you have billion dollar comedian's and political leaders getting up on stage and openly mocking the most vulnerable among us blaming them for problems they don't cause and millions of people laughing along with hate filled hearts.

 

It shouldn't have to hurt to be yourself. 

 

 It is crazy to think people who wanna live their lives in peace get chased from being able to use a bathroom room safely, or teaching without controversy, or in some areas outright refused treatment, but that's better then in some cases where the attempt for treatment is banned outright or a crime. 

 

God I wish we lived in a world where I didn't have to be paranoid on behalf of my trans brothers, sisters, and nonbinary.

 

I will say this no matter what you have an ally with me.

 

Be strong, your loved, your valued, and we will make the world one day recognize your right to exist. It seems like the dark age never left humanity with the way we are so casually cruel to one another. Yet we have the power to make the world a better place.

Love-

 

Litlegrl​(sub female){Dragon11} - As the mom of a nonbinary child, I really love this post. My oldest has a hard time coming out because of the fear they have. Their father, my ex, wasn't supportive at all. I still sometimes forget to use they/them but am doing better.
I am sorry for any abuse or hate you have gotten. You're a beautiful lady and I love how the corset and the marks look on you 😁
1 year ago
IceGirl​(switch female)Verified Account - I want to be clear I am not trans or non binary. People get confused about intersex and trans all the time. Not saying you did.

As for my beauty it's hard to feel that way because of the dehumanizing experiences I have had as a woman and someone who talks about intersex issues from an advocacy standpoint.

I am sorry that your family has had a hard time accepting them. My own mother still in my late 30's wishes i didn't have a condition that made me female so I can't offer much help bigotry and ignorance runs deep.

As for your child you being there and loving them is huge as someone with know family I know at times it has been hard for me so I can assure you your child is greatful that they can trust you.

The fact your trying means the world to them in terms of getting pronouns right what you gotta imagine is a mistake to you feels like there parent is invalidating there existence to them.

One of my favorite movie seens in all of history is in the crow where he confronted Darla for shooting up instead of being a good mother to there child. For mother is the word for god on the lips and hearts of children.

Thank you for being a mother who tries and even if they can't tell you or express how much it means to them you typing this to me today brought a tears to my eyes of happiness.

If there ever is a way I can help let me know.

Love
1 year ago
IceGirl​(switch female)Verified Account - The clip I mentioned if you wanna see it.

1 year ago
sexycurves​(sub female) - My eldest is non binary but that never changed my love for them. I'm so pleased that they had the courage to be honest and be themselves. Some of my family still struggle to accept that they are non binary.

It's good to see that you have given a safe place for people who are trans/non binary.

1 year ago
IceGirl​(switch female)Verified Account - I try to do advocacy work there is an element of not wanting to over speak as an Intersex person there is enough to talk about my issues.

But I have some of the common struggles. My family had issues with accepting me even as medical professionals were telling them that even though I was XY I was female internally and that if I wasn't allowed to have my female body supported I would continue to be very ill or maybe die my own grandmother said Id be better off dead then having any sorta correction done.

These experiences made me very concerned with the plight of all LGBTIQ people because I know in many ways I am not unique.

The war isn't won until every human is loved and appreciated for who they are without the fear of reprisal for living authentically.

I hope you and your children all see more days of peace and love before you.
1 year ago
MsDove​(sub female){Eternal Pi}Verified Account - ❤️
1 year ago
IceGirl​(switch female)Verified Account - Thanks miss dove.
1 year ago

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