Late night Rants, thoughts and/or questions

Alrighty... Let me just rant and explain a bit..

I don't keep track of my notifications as well on here since I don't want so many notifications blowing up on my phone where someone can see... I keep this private and don't need people seeing my discussions on my screen. 

Now I did recently get blocked by someone who accused me of ghosting even though I said in my profile I'm horrible on here. I have good consistent days and not so consistent days obviously because of life. 

Anyways... If I like you and your blogs at least lets chat on Google chat that I'll actually be more better at replying since it would come up not as suspicious or that.

There is one of you so far Doms that I actually really wanted to get to know more because I love your blogs and I can read them still but can't love them. 

All I'm asking for is a chance to correct the misconception you have of me. Thanks 

Have you ever met someone who you liked talking to them but because of the conversation and things you just didn't feel like there was anything there besides possibly friends.

Like seriously wouldn't you rather be told, "I'm not interested in pursuing a relationship with you/ or see us as anything other than friends"

OR

have someone try faking that they are still interested/lead you on for a long time?(Hurtful to both individuals if you do that)

HONESTLY the first one is definitely a more mature way of dealing with things.

NOW

If someone messages (sub) and tells the Dom they just  don't see the conversation going to a relationship... THEN don't be a jack ass, immature, prick and so on that you accuse the person (who said not interested) saying

"I figured. You're just here for horny attention.  You'll get plenty of it when you stop lying to yourself about what you want." (Dom saying that) then blocks them. 

LIKE WHOA NOW.... EXCUSE YOU!!!

Well long story short Let me tell ya" YOU DODGED A RED FLAG "dom".

So to those who can't take someone telling you they aren't interested how about you instead say," I understand and wish you well in Finding the right Dom for you."

Instead of being an ASSHOLE!!!

*Warning* there will be sass, bad words and complete letting out my frustrations.

Well let's get started... I have been getting lots of messages and some (lots) question What is Ghosting? Or saying I'm Ghosting.(I mentioned it on my profile) 

Hmm let's see... You know the type of technology you are using right now to read this? Well news fucking flash... It obviously is a piece of technology that needs WiFi, mobile date, oh and the fucking internet!

Now that I've established that how about you go to Google, safari or whatever and type in WHAT IS GHOSTING? in the search bar. Taa-fucking-daa!! Wow great there's your answer! If you didn't get it I'll be "nice" and show you what it means. (I did copy and paste off of Google) 

1. the appearance of a ghost or secondary image on a television or other display screen.
"the display is sharper and less prone to ghosting"
 
2.the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication.
"I thought ghosting was a horrible dating habit reserved for casual flings"

Now if you still don't get it the answer I'm referring and using on my profile is #2. That's what ghosting is to me. 

Now I get so many messages on here! It's so hard to get to all of them especially since I have a life outside of this website. I can't be on here 24/7 replying to everyone. I try but there's days where I come on here to just read blogs and then log out. Not only I could be busy I also deal with mental health issues (depression and anxiety). Now because of that I have days or months without logging in on here which means even more messages. It gets overwhelming and I just don't have the mental capacity sometimes to catch up on all of them. 

Now I won't lie sometimes I just mark all the messages as read because seeing the number of how many I have unopened makes me more overwhelmed and makes me question myself.(won't go into detail on that). So yes I don't respond to some of you in a very timely manner which I am sorry for but read my profile.

** If you start a conversation with calling me "pet names", whore, slut, giving me orders and that I WONT ANSWER!!  No matter how many times I tell those kinds of people I'm not interested or ignore just goes way over their head and they don't care. I've given up on going off on them for the most part since it doesn't help. Now if you start off a conversation with what I listed above and I ignore you take the hint and just stop messaging me and move on!! I'm not here to satisfy your jacking off fake needs! I want an actual dynamic/relationship. 

Back to the question above and the #2 description that's what I go by and follow. Ok! Great!

*Deep breaths* sorry for the long post I just couldn't handle it anymore. Now to many of you might not like how I handle things (I admit I do handle things wrong) I just Had to get it out.