*Warning* there will be sass, bad words and complete letting out my frustrations.
Well let's get started... I have been getting lots of messages and some (lots) question What is Ghosting? Or saying I'm Ghosting.(I mentioned it on my profile)
Hmm let's see... You know the type of technology you are using right now to read this? Well news fucking flash... It obviously is a piece of technology that needs WiFi, mobile date, oh and the fucking internet!
Now that I've established that how about you go to Google, safari or whatever and type in WHAT IS GHOSTING? in the search bar. Taa-fucking-daa!! Wow great there's your answer! If you didn't get it I'll be "nice" and show you what it means. (I did copy and paste off of Google)
1. the appearance of a ghost or secondary image on a television or other display screen.
"the display is sharper and less prone to ghosting"
2.the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication.
"I thought ghosting was a horrible dating habit reserved for casual flings"
Now if you still don't get it the answer I'm referring and using on my profile is #2. That's what ghosting is to me.
Now I get so many messages on here! It's so hard to get to all of them especially since I have a life outside of this website. I can't be on here 24/7 replying to everyone. I try but there's days where I come on here to just read blogs and then log out. Not only I could be busy I also deal with mental health issues (depression and anxiety). Now because of that I have days or months without logging in on here which means even more messages. It gets overwhelming and I just don't have the mental capacity sometimes to catch up on all of them.
Now I won't lie sometimes I just mark all the messages as read because seeing the number of how many I have unopened makes me more overwhelmed and makes me question myself.(won't go into detail on that). So yes I don't respond to some of you in a very timely manner which I am sorry for but read my profile.
** If you start a conversation with calling me "pet names", whore, slut, giving me orders and that I WONT ANSWER!! No matter how many times I tell those kinds of people I'm not interested or ignore just goes way over their head and they don't care. I've given up on going off on them for the most part since it doesn't help. Now if you start off a conversation with what I listed above and I ignore you take the hint and just stop messaging me and move on!! I'm not here to satisfy your jacking off fake needs! I want an actual dynamic/relationship.
Back to the question above and the #2 description that's what I go by and follow. Ok! Great!
*Deep breaths* sorry for the long post I just couldn't handle it anymore. Now to many of you might not like how I handle things (I admit I do handle things wrong) I just Had to get it out.
