It amazes me how fast and exciting it is when you first start talking to someone. After a few conversations you can feel if it will be friends zone or I really want to try for a relationship. I love the feelings the excitement the possibilities. You talk and plan. We need to meet to see if these feelings translate to in person wants. We plan a possible future, travel, time with my family time with his. You start to get a feeling something has changed. You wonder, he spends a lot i mean a lot of time with the ex could that be it? You have teased him about her being his good service sub....then he spends the weekend with his buddy, he was to let you know he made but apparently in the 15 minutes it took him to arrive he got to exhausted and fell asleep. Then in your first conversation in several days he drops it. A friend passed away, I know we talked about traveling and splitting time between families but I can't do that. I want to stay here. The end. Wow. Yes, it hurt. Yes it made me mad. Will we be friends no clue, I think it is still to fresh. It has changed how i will talk to men in the future. No sense in trying to hard. Lesson learned.
3 months ago. Wednesday, September 24, 2025 at 10:33 AM