Fake Doms and vetting

It amazes me how fast and exciting it is when you first start talking to someone. After a few conversations you can feel if it will be friends zone or I really want to try for a relationship.  I love the feelings the excitement the possibilities.  You talk and plan. We need to meet to see if these feelings translate to in person wants. We plan a possible future, travel, time with my family time with his. You start to get a feeling something has changed. You wonder, he spends a lot i mean a lot of time with the ex could that be it? You have teased him about her being his good service sub....then he spends the weekend with his buddy, he was to let you know he made but apparently in the 15 minutes it took him to arrive he got to exhausted and fell asleep. Then in your first conversation in several days he drops it. A friend passed away, I know we talked about traveling and splitting time between families but I can't do that. I want to stay here. The end. Wow. Yes, it hurt. Yes it made me mad. Will we be friends no clue, I think it is still to fresh. It has changed how i will talk to men in the future. No sense in trying to hard. Lesson learned.

Battery operated boyfriends or rechargeable are better than men....prove me wrong.

This is an open question. I have talked to a few men and a couple women and I swear most of them tell you one thing have something on their profile and then turn out to be the complete opposite.  Don't tell me you want to get to know me and chat with me several times a day and have some sexting then ask about a relationship and all of a sudden it is like pulling teeth trying to chat with you. 

Just say I'm not interested or I just want to be friends.  Easy as hell. Don't make someone feel like crap because your not as interested as you said.

It makes it so hard to believe anyone. .

Good luck out there. Put hip boots on while wadding through the crap.