Now, obviously some people read my blogs and that's great. I wouldn't write it if I didn't want it read. But seriously? The very thing I was complaining about in my last post was people not wanting to get to know me before jumping into whatever dynamic they want. And what DMs do I get immediately after people read it?
"I wanna be your dom"
"I'll cure your loneliness, just submit to me"
And so on. Like Seriously? I don't even respond to people who do that anymore. So, if you want to truly get to know me, tell me a little about yourself - no not about what you're like as a dom, what your kinks are, so on. If you've filled out your profile the right way, I can get that stuff from your profile. No, I want to know what your interests are outside of BDSM.
What do you like to do in your free time/what are your hobbies? (BESIDES BDSM!!!)
Do you like to read books or do you prefer reading online or listening to audio books? (If you don't read at all consider yourself not compatible.)
What movie/book/music genres do you like? (Any or all of these!!!)
Do you have pets? If so, what kind?
Do you have children, are/were you married?
So on and so forth! I want to get to know YOU before I get to know the Dom.
To keep it fair, let me answer those questions myself!
I love to play video games in my spare time, as well as play dungeons and dragons! Wednesdays I play a D&D Campaign Module known as one of the hardest campaigns in the books, Curse of Strahd. We stream the game at twitch.tv/chaoticcalling! Drop by and say hello, that Syr sent you! I'd love to talk nerdy with you.
I love reading physical books - I love the scent of a new book. Unfortunately in recent years I've slowly stopped reading physical copies and started listening to audio books and reading fanfictions online.
I like most any movie genre, it just depends on if the trailer is interesting enough for me to be interested in watching. But some of my favorite movies are: Oh, Brother Where Art Thou? The Avengers Series, IT Chapter 1 (haven't seen Chapter 2, really want to), so I have a wide variety of movies I'm willing to see.
My book/fanfiction preferences are much more narrow - I pretty much only read fantasy. Harry Potter, Undertale (which is a video game), Beyonders, Fablehaven, so on and so forth.
My preferred music genres are also pretty open except for Rap and Heavy Metal. I think rap is crude, and Heavy Metal gives me a headache. I'm willing to listen to Country, (2000s - earlier) Pop music, Rock and Roll (love Billy Joel and Elvis).
I do not have any pets, unfortunately. Both my grandmothers have toy poodles (my mom's side has a white one named Yogi, and my dad's side has a chocolate one named Herby). They are both so cute and I love them like they are my own. My dad has a cat named Derek Edward the Cat. (Derek for short). He's ornery and likes to cling to me, unintentionally scratching me.
I do not have any children, nor have I been married before. I have had a few previous relationships, but none have lasted longer than a year. I have not found the right one yet!!!
