Training your slave

I've contemplated a few parts of BDSM. Maybe my primary finding was about variety. Individuals who are new to BDSM frequently accept that it includes a little scope of things and that everybody does it for a similar explanation. For instance there is a typical generalization of powerful money managers going to a calfskin clad dominatrix to be whipped to calm the pressing factor of their work. I found that BDSM incorporates various practices and that individuals do it for a wide range of reasons.

For instance, BDSM can include: actual sensations (from plumes to candlewax to floggers), servitude (from binds to rope to complex strips), mastery and accommodation (someone looking out for another person, someone bossing someone else around), discipline (hitting, berating, and so forth), sprucing up, and pretend (cops, privateers, clinical, school, and so on) Every one of these things can happen independently or in blend.

For some BDSM can be a method of surrendering control and giving up, for other people, it is a fun, fun loving action. It can mean taking on an alternate job and being another person for some time, it tends to be a type of unwinding, or it tends to be a method of showing strength and the amount you are fit for persevering. It can assist some with investigating something that alarms them (agony or harassing), it very well may be a method of building closeness with someone else, or it can give motivation to being cared for and really focused on a while later. It could implies a considerable lot of these things in any event, for a similar individual, or on various events

Here are some general guidelines on how to approach:

1. The slave needs to be regularly reminded throughout the session/ day to feel owned.
Ways to remind her can be subtle or obtrusive.

2. Always be assertive when communicating your orders.

3. Be consistent in practicing dominance. ( I find this very important – this one is listed two times.)

4. Never ignore her wrongdoings. Punish her accordingly every time. This is the continuation of the guideline listed before.

5. Teach your slave using positive and motivational methods. Incorporate games like hide & seek, go find, retrieve,…

6. Avoid giving commands that you know you can’t enforce. If a command is neither complied with nor enforced, your slave will learn that commands are optional.

7. One command should equal one response.
Use a calm and authoritative tone when giving commands.

I will dive right into it. 

Slave training is a challenge if the Slave is a newbie. To remedy that I’ve come up with a training system.

Its a RPG story based training. Folks who have played games like Skyrim, or the dungeon and dragon board game know what I am talking about. 

Here the master adopts the role of a dungeon master and the slave is the main character that plays out the masters fantasy narrative. 

There is a main story and then side stories. Completing main and side story quests gains the slave points. Failing to do so, negates points from the slave. There are also “pet treats” that can be earned by your slave while completing a difficult task. “Pet treats” are very rare and unique items that has a 1 time use. For example. If I task my slave to pleasure herself but Not to cum until master ordered to do so and the slave has earned a “please master I beg you” pet treat then the slave is allowed to cum - by “cashing in” the “pet treats” card.

This is an example on the narrative on how the training and narrative goes. Now coming back to the experience points, every tasks will have a different experience point associated with it.. at the end of the narrative you slave will know how beautiful her allegiance was to the master. This cadence can be followed to work on and improve the master and the slaves relationship.