Here are some general guidelines on how to approach:
1. The slave needs to be regularly reminded throughout the session/ day to feel owned.
Ways to remind her can be subtle or obtrusive.
2. Always be assertive when communicating your orders.
3. Be consistent in practicing dominance. ( I find this very important – this one is listed two times.)
4. Never ignore her wrongdoings. Punish her accordingly every time. This is the continuation of the guideline listed before.
5. Teach your slave using positive and motivational methods. Incorporate games like hide & seek, go find, retrieve,…
6. Avoid giving commands that you know you can’t enforce. If a command is neither complied with nor enforced, your slave will learn that commands are optional.
7. One command should equal one response.
Use a calm and authoritative tone when giving commands.