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The Ramblings of Dickhead Idealist

I'd like to see some a lot of the old ways return. When a slave dedicated themselves to their Master, and a sub to her Dom, and a Top took care of their bottems even when it didn't mean getting laid.... A lot of those old fashioned ideas will be found here.
4 years ago. June 9, 2019 at 1:59 AM

i have just went on an adventure and was blown away. I went into the chatroom here and was blown away at the amount of arrogance and cliquishness. Its rather sickening. We as a community have a RESPONSIBILITY  to be open and accepting of people because guess what? NO ONE ELSE IS GOING TO BE. I'm all for protecting the community, I think my work here speaks for itself in that regard, but with EDUCATION not with OSTRACIZATION. When cut people out without having any idea who or what they are we become the enemy. Had I not seen the type of support this site has on the blog side I absolutely would have deleted my account and moved on. Had I not been as experienced as I am in this lifestyle maybe I would have just said "Fuck all this. Its not for me." And why? Because I was just muted by at least 2 people for no reason and then when I asked what prompted that I was informed that "some people here know what they are talking about and are EXPERTS in BDSM." TF kinda nonsense is that? An EXPERT? You know what that sounds like to me? A Know-it-all. A person who is to set on the idea that there is nothing more for them to learn because they already know everything. In my opinion if there is anyone who should be ostracized from our community its someone who cannot learn. People like that are dangerous and they need to be kept away from.... well everyone for fear that stupidity will rub off. I am constantly learning, constantly growing as a Dom, as a Daddy, as a Master and as a human. The day we stop learning is the day we need to just hang up our hats and go home because people that don't learn HURT people. 

 

 

*steps off soap box* 

As always my PMs are open. I love you guys and thanks for listening to the rambles of a dick-head idealist Dom before he turns into a cynical old prick. 

Satindragon{N/A} - Oh love, that is why most people now avoid the chat room. It was once a place for good conversation. Learning and even some joking around. Not anymore. Sorry you had a bad experience.
4 years ago
DrJokerTearMiser​(sadist male) - its just sad ya know?
4 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - *stands and claps* well fucking said!! So well said! Looks behind and gives a "did you you "kids" in the back of the roo. Hear that?" look. Great Post!! ❤️❤️❤️ (As a side, I NEVER go into chat, because I am more a one on one person - glad I made that choice!)
4 years ago
ZaftigV​(switch female){sub matt} - I’ve only been once and it wasn’t for me. Lol
4 years ago
HisRedd{Self} - Whipped pup...I did not attack you! Simply agreed with the fact. I will ask you to keep my name out of your mouth! You are not worthy to speak it. From this point on we know nothing of each other!
4 years ago
DrJokerTearMiser​(sadist male) - Ok E i don't know who you are confusing me with but the litter only thing i said about that subject was that kinkerbell shouldn't be ashamed. And for that i was blocked. FOR A TOPIC I DIDNT EVEN START. At least the thing that kinkerbell just said was true i DID in fact say i don't use condoms and choose the communication method instead. I did not "advocate for" anything but she was close at least. You on the other hand have chosen just to make shit up. But i guess that's what experts do right? They make shit up? I really hope your being an "expert" doesn't get someone hurt because no one deserves to suffer at the hands of an "expert" that can't even tell the truth. What does it say about you that EVERYONE KNEW WHO I MADE THIS POST ABOUT?
4 years ago
Fate - I love welcoming newcomers and don’t understand people who don’t.
4 years ago
ADIDAS - Yeah, me too Fate. I'm not on A " side" here but I do understand what is being said about the chat room, especially the lobby. I've been there maybe once or twice out of desperation, literally, desperate to talk to someone, anyone and the experience I had was equivalent to a high school lunch room. I pmed one person mentioned here for advice, seemed like a good person to talk to. I was summarily dismissed because of my marital status and never got to get into my pressing issues. I felt extremely judged, ostracized. Kinda like he was my judge, jury and Executioner and found me unwanted in this group before he knew ME. I didn't push, I thanked the person for their time and closed the chat but I always wondered how does one make it so far up the echelon of bdsm ranks and acknowledgment this way? Must be me! He had to be right! I felt very bad about myself for a long time. Until I met MyDaddy. I shared this story with more details and he told me how wrong this person is and that I'm not doing anything wrong. But this is all besides the point, lol....

Like I said, I don't want to get in the middle of anything. Just wanted to comment on this post. The chat rooms are fine If you just want to kill time. Just not for me thank you!
4 years ago

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