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6 months ago. Friday, August 8, 2025 at 3:59 PM

More and more I've been seeing profiles say they have "no limits" and I can't help but look at it with disapproval. Don't get me wrong, I understand why so many do, it sounds hot as fuck. Trying to show you have absolute faith in them, that you're the kinkiest of the kinky. Maybe you have an extreme fantasy you want to experience. Truth is everyone absolutely has limits and it's completely ignorant to act there isn't.

 

The problems are twofold:

 

You're really only going to attract predators who want to take advantage of said ignorance. Ones who will abuse your lack of boundaries to exploit and abuse you.

 

Genuine kinksters will most likely not take you seriously. Actual ethical practitioners don't want to guess what your boundaries are. Saying "nothing is off limits" makes me personally wary. Either you're way too new to everything which is already a lot of pressure or you're lying to try to impress me which is actually worse.

 

Just be honest if you're unsure of what your kinks are. If you're still figuring it out, great. Say so, be up front with your (potential)partner instead of starting off misleading them. It is so much worse letting them believe anything they do is okay only for you both to discover too late that it is in fact NOT a good thing to do with you.

 

And there is a difference between kink and fetish, having a kink does not mean it's also your fetish. Fetishes are thoughts/fantasies/ideas that you get off to, kinks are something you actually enjoy the practice of. Example, breeding can be a very hot fetish but people may not actually want children. Super important to differentiate between those with others.

 

For those of you still insisting you have no limits? Great, prove it by slamming a door on your genitalia repeatedly.

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