I'm often called a hypocrite when I tell people I identify as a Dom. "Wait, aren't you a feminist? How can you follow that lifestyle if you believe in women's rights?" One can absolutely be both and I'm not doing mental gymnastics when I say that. A feminist to me is a person who knows women have the power to choose whatever they want to be. That the most empowering thing a woman can ever do is to choose the man she wants to submit to for the rest of her life. That she chooses not to be any random slut but My slut, My cocksleeve, My cum dump princess. Being a Dom is a gift entitled to me by the strongest woman I know, My sub. She looks to me as her mentor, trainer, her pillar of strength. She wants me to help make decisions not because she can't make them on her own but because she respects that my wisdom and experienced. I love providing that. I want to teach her and help her through everything in life, not just questions about our lifestyle, I mean everything.
I am not demanding her Labour.